A parenting podcast that doesn't tell you HOW to parent your own child. We teach you how to think during parenting challenges and help you build emotional intelligence skills to lower your stress and help you cope with those challenging emotions that come with parenting. Neuroscientist, Dr. Cindy Hovington can help you parent your child with confidence and feel competent by helping you understand your triggers, recognize and break your emotional patterns and teach you how to model healthy em ...
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As someone who cares for sick and dying patients, hospice and palliative care physician Dr. Luyi Kathy Zhang has learned a thing or two about living. The good news is you don’t have to wait until the end or to lose someone you love to get a second chance at the life you truly want. With episodes covering topics like health, relationships, mindset, productivity, business, fulfillment and happiness, you’ll learn how to apply the lessons of the dying before it’s too late so you can create a lif ...
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Join Ricardo Vasquez who inspired by the death of his dad, Ricardo Luis Vasquez, decided to do his best to optimize his health and share what he's learning and doing with anyone who wants to do the same. Interviewing experts in their respective fields like Doctors, scientists, and others in the health space plus "super agers". People who are aging gracefully and look, feel and/or perform way below their age. My job is simple, to dissect the habits, rituals, routines, wisdom and knowledge fro ...
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Mother's Day Reflection: Am I addressing my needs?
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22:10Send us a text Happy Mother's Day! I wanted to post today on Mother's Day because of the conversations I have been having with moms all week. It helped me realize that so many of us are powering through motherhood not addressing our needs or communicating them to those around us. Take 20 min out of your day today to listen to this quick solo episod…
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Should I hug my child or ignore them during a tantrum?
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1:01:35Send us a text In this episode of the Reflective Parenting Podcast, I chat with Albiona Rakipi who is a parent coach. I love her work and it is well-aligned with the research I read around co-regulation and teaching kids how to regulate emotions. If you are a parent that often questions what to do DURING a tantrum, then this episode is for you. You…
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Am I a helicopter parent? The science of overparenting.
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33:20Send us a text In today’s episode, we dive into the science of overparenting and explore what research says about its impact on children’s mental health. I break down a recent meta-analysis that shows how overparenting is linked to higher levels of depression, anxiety, and emotional struggles in kids and young adults. We also explore Self-Determina…
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Why boredom is important for your child's development with Susie Allison
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56:13Send us a text Boredom is not a problem to solve but an essential skill children must develop for emotional regulation and creative thinking. When parents constantly entertain their children or rescue them from boredom, they unintentionally prevent crucial developmental growth. In today's replay episode (this is the second most downloaded episode o…
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Why meaningful friendships are important for parental well-being with Dr. Miriam Kirmayer
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53:47Send us a text Dr. Miriam Kirmayer, clinical psychologist and friendship expert, joins Cindy to discuss the profound impact of friendships on our psychological well-being and how we can cultivate meaningful connections despite the challenges of parenthood. Here is what we discussed: • Social connections are one of the most powerful predictors of he…
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When you discipline your child are you also doing this one important thing?
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28:26Send us a text The one mistake many parents make when disciplining their children is forgetting to teach the underlying skills needed for emotional regulation. Focusing only on consequences without addressing skill development leaves children unable to manage emotions like disappointment and frustration. • The purpose of discipline should be educat…
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Exploring Perimenopause with Dr. Kristina Calder
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1:03:42Send us a text Dr's Cindy Hovington and Kristina Calder explore perimenopause, the hormonal transition that begins in women's 40s and significantly impacts mental health, energy, and body composition. • Perimenopause often starts in your 40s but can begin as early as late 30s • Symptoms include irregular periods, insomnia, anxiety, joint pain, mood…
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How to have emotionally intelligent arguments with your partner
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30:56Send us a text Ever caught yourself rattling off an endless list of reminders to your partner before they take the kids somewhere? "Don't forget snacks, water bottles, jackets..." Sound familiar? In this illuminating episode, I share a personal revelation that transformed my understanding of parenting partnerships. The awakening came when my mother…
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What the Dying Can Teach Us About Living More Fully with Dr. Kathy Zhang
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57:02Send us a text What can the dying teach us about living? In this transformative conversation, Dr. Kathy Zhang, a palliative care physician, shares profound insights from her work with patients at the end of life that can revolutionize our approach to parenting and emotional wellbeing. Dr. Zhang reveals how witnessing death daily has paradoxically e…
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Stop searching for parenting advice and try this instead
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32:46Send us a text Have you ever felt crushed by the pressure to follow a specific parenting style perfectly? The weight of trying to fit into boxes labeled "positive parenting" or "conscious parenting" leaves many of us feeling inadequate and constantly seeking more information. What if there's a more sustainable approach? The newly renamed Reflective…
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How the connection recession is impacting parents with Rich Woo
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46:59Send us a text Discover the importance of forging meaningful connections and the healing power of friendships, especially after periods of isolation. In today's episode, I chatted with author of The Connection Recession, Rich Woo. We discuss the following key points: • Emphasizing connection as essential for mental well-being • Personal anecdotes h…
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How to build resilience in children by allowing them to fail with Jessica Lahey
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1:12:25Send us a text We discuss the essential balance of parenting, focusing on how allowing children to fail fosters resilience and independence. Jessica Leahy shares insights from her book, The Gift of Failure, highlighting the dangers of over-parenting and the need to embrace failure as a part of learning. • The significance of letting children experi…
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Am I escalating this situation with my child?
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32:37Send us a text Understanding how to navigate emotional responses with our children is vital for fostering healthy relationships within families. This episode explores the importance of self-awareness, recognizing triggers, and methods to de-escalate conflicts with children for more effective communication and connection. • Emphasizing the challenge…
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Supporting emotional development through play with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson
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1:09:44Send us a text The episode delves into the critical role of play in both parental and child emotional development. Tina Payne Bryson shares insights from her book, *The Way of Play*, emphasizing how engaging in playful interactions can foster emotional intelligence and resilience in children while helping parents regulate their own stress. • Explor…
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The power of connection in addiction treatment with Travis Goodman
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55:34Send us a text In this episode of the Curious Neuron podcast, I chat with therapist Travis Goodman about the rising concerns around addiction. We explore the importance of compassionate curiosity when approaching conversations about addiction, the role of the nervous system in addiction, and the necessity of managing personal emotions when dealing …
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How to parent yourself first and break unhealthy cycles with Bryana Kappadakunnel
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43:42Send us a text This episode explores the profound impact of childhood experiences on parenting styles, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and emotional healing. Brianna shares insights on building connections with children through understanding and compassion while setting healthy boundaries. • Understanding how childhood wounds manifest…
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Moving away from positive parenting and towards reflective parenting
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24:40Send us a text This episode encourages parents to shift their focus from rigid parenting styles to a more reflective, emotion-centered approach. We discuss the pressures of perfectionism, the importance of self-awareness, and how embracing the idea of "good enough" can transform parenting experiences. • Exploring the pressures of positive and consc…
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How to talk to children about the Los Angeles wildfires with Dr. Tamara Soles
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28:46Send us a text Open communication is essential for helping children process their fears and feelings regarding crises like the LA wildfires. Parents should approach conversations with empathy, reinforcing feelings of safety and community support while recognizing their own emotional well-being. Today, I chatted with Dr. Tamara Soles to get some adv…
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Understanding and Managing Emotional Triggers for Mindful Parenting with Dr. Sarah Bren
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1:01:56Send us a text REPLAY EPISODE Ever wondered how your own thoughts, feelings, and behaviours impact your parenting? Prepare to gain a deeper understanding of your own emotional triggers and responses as we delve into the complexities of parenting with clinical psychologist Dr. Sarah Bren. This episode is a masterclass in mindful parenting, giving yo…
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Strengthening Family Connections through Self-Regulation With Dr. Bruce Perry (Replay)
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1:25:28Send us a text The episode highlights the vital role of self-regulation in parenting, especially in navigating holiday gatherings and family dynamics. Dr. Bruce Perry discusses the importance of understanding brain development and the processes involved in engaging with children emotionally. • The significance of regulating oneself before helping c…
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Nurturing A Secure Attachment with Reflective Skills: Insights with Dr. Nicole Letourneau
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1:00:28Send us a text In this special 200th episode of the Curious Neuron podcast, we chat with renowned professor from the University of Calgary Dr. Nicole Letourneau. Her research focuses on enhancing parental reflective functioning (RF), the ability to understand and interpret one's own and a child's mental and emotional states. Through the development…
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#15 - The Real Science Behind Fixing Your Gut Health With Dr Gabrielle Fundaro
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1:57:29Send us a text 🎙️ Unlock the Secrets of Gut Health with Dr. Gabrielle Fundaro! In this episode of Youthful Aging Secrets, Dr. Gabrielle Fundaro unpacks the mysteries of the gut microbiome and its vital role in overall health. From the truth about gut diversity to debunking pseudoscience myths, this episode is packed with actionable insights to enha…
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A mother's healing journey after losing her husband to suicide
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43:22Send us a text Grief is a complex journey, especially when it involves the devastating loss of a loved one by suicide. Join us as we sit down with Reshma, a mother of three, who shares her heartfelt story of healing following her husband's tragic death. Through her lens, we explore how mindfulness has been a beacon of hope for her family, providing…
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Tips to help parents reduce stress and overwhelm during the holidays
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29:09Send us a text Discover how to navigate the stress of the holiday season while prioritizing your mental well-being and fostering a joyful atmosphere for yourself and your family. This episode promises to equip parents with actionable strategies and insights, offering three essential tips to manage the challenges of family gatherings, financial pres…
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#14 - What Death Teaches Us About Life - Dr. Kathy Zhang
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1:39:08Send us a text 🎙️ Lessons from the Dying: Dr. Kathy Zhang on Living Life to the Fullest | Youthful Aging Secrets Podcast In the Youthful Aging Secrets Podcast episode, host Ricardo Vasquez welcomes Dr. Kathy Zhang, a palliative care doctor who shares profound lessons learned from working with dying patients. 💔 Kathy discusses the biggest regrets of…
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Screen time vs Play time in kids under 5 with Tammy Schamuhn
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50:03Send us a text In this conversation, Cindy Hovington chats with Tammy Schamuhn, Registered Psychologist, Best-Selling Author, Co-Founder of the Institute of Child Psychology and the Executive Director of Family Counselling Centres discuss the importance of parental involvement in child development, the challenges parents face, and the need for sett…
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Ask Dr. Cindy: How can I better manage my mental load?
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28:17Send us a text A parent from our membership asked me "How can I manage the mental load" and in today's episode, I break down the advice I gave this parent. We all have a mental load and sometimes it seems like nothing can make it disappear. However, there are ways that we can manage this better and feel less of this burden on our minds. I share tip…
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#13 - From Near DEATH to NEW LIFE Cameron Hill's Astounding Story!
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1:42:32Send us a text From Brain Dead to Bodybuilder: Cameron Hill's Health, Longevity, and Biohacking Transformation In this eye-opening episode of the Youthful Aging Secrets Podcast, host Ricardo Vasquez interviews Cameron Hill—a living testament to the power of resilience and biohacking. Cameron's journey is nothing short of extraordinary: from being d…
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The Hidden Struggles of New Fathers with Dr. Pierre Azzam
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53:38Send us a text In this conversation, Dr. Pierre Azzam discusses the intersection of mental health and professional coaching, particularly focusing on the experiences of fathers. He highlights the stigma surrounding mental health for men and the importance of understanding postpartum depression in fathers. The conversation emphasizes the need for co…
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#12: Forbidden Secrets To Staying Young At 78 With Frank Gilfeather
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1:48:38Send us a text 🥊 Ageless Boxing: Frank Gilfeather's Secrets to Staying Young at 78 | Youthful Aging Secrets Podcast Episode #12 🥊 Join Ricardo Vazquez as he dives into the life and longevity secrets of Frank Gilfeather, a 78-year-old boxing legend from Aberdeen, Scotland. 🇬🇧 In this episode, Frank reveals his tips on: 💪 Staying healthy and active 🥗…
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The Role of Community and Support in Fertility with Lauren Enright
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42:36Send us a text In this conversation, Cindy and Lauren discuss the multifaceted role of a fertility coach, emphasizing a holistic approach that integrates emotional and physical well-being. They explore the significant stress associated with fertility journeys, the impact of societal expectations, and the importance of community support. Lauren shar…
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Embracing Goodbyes: What to do when a child struggles with getting rid of a toy
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14:14Send us a text Does your child struggle with letting go of toys they love? Saying goodbye and having closure is something we need to support our kids with. I hope this week's episode helps not only your child with closure, but helps you the next time you need to say goodbye to a loved one or something major. Search for a past podcast episode or gue…
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#11: Julie Gibson Clark- $150/Day Routine Beats Millionaires in the Rejuvenation Olympics
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2:09:35Send us a text In Episode #11 of Youthful Aging Secrets, Julie Gibson Clark shares her remarkable journey in the Rejuvenation Olympics, revealing how she outpaced wealthy biohackers with a $150-a-day regimen. Discover her approach to anti-aging, heavy metal detox, and nutrition that challenges mainstream health norms. From her $150/day anti-aging h…
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Navigating Burnout: Strategies for Emotional Well-Being with Dr. Jessi Gold
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50:58Send us a text In this conversation, Dr. Jessi Gold, Author of "How do you Feel?" discusses her book on mental health and burnout, particularly in the healthcare sector. She shares her personal experiences and insights on the subtlety of burnout, the cultural perceptions surrounding mental health, and the importance of self-care and compassion. The…
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Attachment, Emotions & Separation Anxiety with Erin O'Connor, Ph.D.
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47:00Send us a text In this episode of the Curious Neuron Podcast, Cindy Hovington speaks with Dr. Erin O'Connor, Ph.D., about the complexities of the mother-child relationship, the importance of attachment theory, and the impact of parental stress on parenting styles. We discuss the significance of sensitivity and responsiveness in parenting, the chall…
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Send us a text What if you could turn fleeting happiness into lasting joy and protect yourself from worry and self-doubt? In the latest Curious Neuron podcast, join me, Cindy, as we explore the connection between joy and emotional regulation. We’ll dive into neuroscience and the insights of Brené Brown to tackle the fears and anxieties that often b…
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#10 How Karyn Defied Age And Started Skateboarding In Her 50s!
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1:01:14Send us a text Kaz at 58: Breaking Boundaries in Skateboarding and Life In this inspiring episode of Youthful Aging Secrets, host Ricardo Vasquez interviews Kaz, a 58-year-old mother who took up skateboarding in her 50s, transforming her life and defying societal expectations of age-related limitations. Alongside her supportive daughter Britt, Kaz …
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Were you ever told "You need to discipline your child right now!"?
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30:51Send us a text In this episode of the Curious Neuron podcast, host Cindy Hovington engages in a heartfelt conversation with Miranda, a mom of 3, about the complexities of parenting. They explore the evolution of parenting styles, particularly the shift towards more conscious and respectful approaches. Miranda shares her personal journey of navigati…
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Creating Lasting Memories with Your Children
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21:10Send us a text What if your automatic "no" responses are stealing precious moments of joy with your children? This week, I share an eye-opening personal story about how a spontaneous water gun fight with my kids became a treasured memory and a lesson in the power of saying "yes." We dive into the roots of our instinctual refusals and explore practi…
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#9: How Jodie Beat Paralysis Without Surgery - With Jodie Brown
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1:40:40Send us a text In this episode, Jodie shares her incredible journey of beating paralysis without surgery. Learn how she reversed aging and improved her healthspan! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- How To Find Us: https://youthfulagingsecrets.com https://www.instagram…
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Preparing your child for preschool using play
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57:47Send us a text In this conversation, I chat with Connie about the critical aspects of preschool education, emphasizing the importance of play in child development. We explore the challenges children face in adapting to open-ended play, the significance of emotional regulation, and the need for realistic expectations from parents. The discussion hig…
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Setting Boundaries and Holding Space for Teenagers' Emotions with Kirsten Cobabe
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1:00:06Send us a text In this episode, Kirsten Cobabe, a teen coach, discusses how parents can navigate the challenges of raising teenagers. She emphasizes the importance of building a strong connection with teens and understanding their perspective. Kirsten suggests that parents should shift their mindset and approach the teenage years with openness and …
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Parental stress has become a public health concern: here are my thoughts
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20:58Send us a text In this episode, I discuss the importance of parental stress and its impact on parenting. I introduce the Reflective Parent Club (IT'S FINALLY OPEN!!), a membership program aimed at helping parents pause, reflect, and regulate their emotions. I emphasize the need for parents to respect their time and create meaningful connections wit…
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The science of happiness with Stephanie Harrison, author of the New Happy
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48:13Send us a text Curious about finding real happiness even in life's chaos? In this episode of the Curious Neuron podcast, we explore what happiness truly means, with insights from Stephanie Harrison, author of New Happy. She shares simple ways to bring joy into your life through small, meaningful actions. We also challenge the idea that you have to …
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#8: Why You Can Still Eat Cake, Lose Weight & Be Healthy - Jacqueline Llovet
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1:07:32Send us a text In this episode of Youthful Aging Secrets I sit down with the amazing Jackie Llovet, a registered nurse with almost 30 years of experience, a fitness coach, and a nutrition coach with Team Biolayne under the renowned Dr. Layne Norton. Jackie is a true superwoman—she juggles three jobs, including her role as a single mom of three, and…
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My life as a neuroscientist turned entrepreneur and homeschooling mom of 3
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38:26Send us a text Have you ever wondered why children's natural curiosity seems to fade as they grow older? This episode takes you on a reflective journey from the inception of Curious Neuron, inspired by a transformative comment from a Harvard professor. I share the pivotal moments from my academic path, including my PhD in neuroscience and postdocto…
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Tips for Pain-Free Living with Jack Santora - Ep #5
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1:31:52Send us a text Join exercise physiologist Jack Santora for expert tips on mobility, flexibility, core strength, and sleep optimization. Learn how to enhance your well-being with movement patterns, foot health tips, minimalist footwear, and blood flow restriction techniques. Discover rotational exercises, grip strength, hanging for shoulder health, …
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#7 Doctor Warns: Gut Health Is More Important Than You Think- With Dr. Christine Bishara
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1:01:26Send us a text In Episode 7 of Youthful Aging Secrets, Dr. Christine Bishara unveils groundbreaking insights into gut health and its critical role in boosting longevity, strengthening the immune system, and promoting youthful aging. Discover how the microbiome holds the power to prevent autoimmune diseases and enhance your healthspan. Whether you'r…
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What are your 2 core values and how do they help you make hard decisions?
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25:23Send us a text Last week inside the Reflective Parent Club, we assessed our core values with our special guest expert Christina. Today, I walk you through this and help you identify your 2 core values. We chat about what this means in your life, what to do if you partner's values don't align with yours, and reflect on if your core values are simila…
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Why is parenting hard for me but it seems so easy for my partner? It's frustrating!
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18:36Send us a text I had an interesting conversation with a parent that felt frustrated because parenting felt like a struggle for her while it seemed so easy for her partner. Can you relate? I thought it would be interesting to break this down and think of a way we could reflect on this. If you can relate to this, don't miss this quick episode! Search…
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