Your days are a blur of cleaning, chauffeuring, cooking, and managing every detail of family life. You’re juggling everyone’s needs, yet you feel invisible, unappreciated, and completely drained. Somewhere along the way, you’ve disappeared. Welcome to the Moms Without Capes Podcast. This isn’t just another podcast telling you to “take care of yourself” without showing you how. Here, we dig into the real struggles moms face—emotional exhaustion, invisible labor, and constant guilt—and offer p ...
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245 | How to Rebuild Connection After Resentment
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15:14Resentment can sneak into a marriage quietly—one unspoken need, one overlooked responsibility, one “What do you need me to do?” at a time—until you wake up feeling more like roommates than partners. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, I’m sharing how to begin rebuilding connection after resentment has taken root. And spoiler: it does…
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244 | Five Ways Resentment Grows in Marriage (And How to Stop It)
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25:10In this raw and relatable episode, Onnie returns to the mic after a short hiatus to talk about something so many moms silently struggle with: resentment in marriage. From doing it all to expecting your partner to read your mind, Onnie breaks down the top five ways resentment sneaks into your relationship — and what you can start doing today to shif…
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243 | The Paradox of Me-Time: Finding Peace Without the Pressure
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15:51You finally get a break—some rare, uninterrupted time to yourself. But instead of feeling free to relax, you feel pressure to use it wisely. Should you tackle your to-do list? Catch up on work? Get ahead on errands? Before you know it, your “me-time” turns into just another thing to optimize—and instead of feeling refreshed, you end up exhausted. I…
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242 | Racing Thoughts and To-Do Lists: Managing an Overactive Mind
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25:58Dive into the pervasive issue of racing thoughts and overactive minds that many mothers experience. We explore how the mental load, societal expectations, and personal pressures contribute to this mental overwhelm. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, you will gain insights into the science behind anxiety-induced overthinking and discover practic…
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241 | Releasing the Rage: How Moms Can Process and Grow from Anger with Bronwyn Schweigerdt
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26:20Are you constantly feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or on the verge of snapping, yet unsure of how to manage those emotions without guilt or shame? In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we are chatting with Bronwyn Schweigerdt, a licensed psychotherapist, podcaster, and anger expert, who shares her insights on why anger is a misunderstood emotion—…
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240 | The Willpower Trap: Why Motivation Fades and What to Do Instead
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18:19Ever wonder why you start the day feeling motivated but by the afternoon, you’re reaching for snacks, snapping at your kids, or ditching your well-intentioned plans? It’s not because you lack discipline—it’s because willpower isn’t a limitless resource! In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we’re diving into the real reasons why relyin…
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239 | Simplifying Health and Living Naturally: Bite-Sized Tips from Dr. Autumn Dugas
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38:55Feeling drained, overwhelmed, and stuck in the endless cycle of caring for everyone but yourself? In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Dugas, a naturopathic doctor who specializes in breaking down health and wellness into bite-sized, practical tips for ‘busy moms. Together, we discuss how simplifying your approach …
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238 | The Invisible Mom: How to Feel Seen and Valued Again
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21:59Do you ever feel like all the effort you put into running your household and caring for your family goes completely unnoticed? Like you’re juggling a million tasks, but no one truly sees everything you do? In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we dive deep into why so many moms feel invisible and unappreciated—and, more importantly, ho…
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237 | Adjust Your Expectations and Find Joy in Imperfection with Liz Kent
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30:53Are you tired of feeling like you have to do it all—and do it perfectly? Explore how you can adjust your expectations, embrace imperfection, and let go of the guilt that often comes with trying to measure up to impossible standards. In this episode, I’m joined by licensed therapist and mindset coach Liz Kent, who shares her expert advice and person…
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236 | Breaking Free: How to Escape the Exhausting Caretaking Cycle
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36:48Dive into the exhausting cycle of overextending yourself in the name of caretaking. Many moms feel stuck in a loop of giving and giving without ever replenishing their own energy. If you've ever felt emotionally drained, resentful, or guilty for taking time for yourself, this episode is for you. Learn how to recognize the caretaking cycle, understa…
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235 | Trust Your Body: Unlocking Wellness and Inner Peace with Molley Sutton
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35:30Discover how to recognize the signals your body is sending, strengthen your intuition, and trust yourself to make decisions that support your health and happiness. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we’re joined by Molley Sutton, a Registered Nurse and Transformative Health and Wellness Coach, to explore how listening to and trustin…
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234 | From Devastation to Healing: Navigating Life After Loss
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17:38Onnie opens her heart to share her journey of grief following the devastating loss of her 20-year-old daughter, Kaylah in this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast. She reflects on how this tragedy has reshaped her reality, relationships, and approach to life. Onnie discusses the importance of doing the work of g…
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233 | The Art of the Juggling Act: Balancing Work, Family, and Self with Sarah Armstrong
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32:03Explore the delicate balance of juggling work, family, and self in this episode of Moms Without Capes, where we’re joined by Sarah Armstrong, author of The Art of the Juggling Act. Sarah shares her wisdom on managing life’s many demands, drawing from her experience as a working mom who has navigated the highs and lows of career and parenting. Tune …
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232 | Lost in Motherhood? How Counseling Helps Moms Reconnect with Themselves
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24:12Have you ever felt like you've lost yourself in the demands of motherhood? You're not alone. Dive into how counseling can help moms reconnect with their sense of self, rediscovering who they are beyond the roles of “mom,” maid, chauffeur, and everything else. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, I’ll share how therapy provides tools to set bounda…
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231 | Take Charge of Your Finances and Enjoy True Peace of Mind with Elizabeth Hansen
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31:35Explore how simplifying your finances can reduce stress and help you reclaim your sense of self. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, I sit down with Elizabeth Hansen, financial expert and Executive Vice President at Five Rings Financial as we dive into practical financial tips designed specifically for busy moms, covering ways to gai…
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230 | How to Set Emotional Boundaries with your Kids
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27:48Dive into a skill that can transform both your parenting and your personal peace of mind: healthy detachment. As moms, it’s easy to get swept up in every mood and meltdown our kids experience, leaving us feeling emotionally drained and overwhelmed. But what if there was a way to be fully present and supportive without absorbing all their emotions? …
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229 | Stop Chasing, Start Owning: How to Embrace Your Worth and Confidence with Nellie Harden
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35:58Stop chasing external validation and start owning your self-worth by learning practical strategies for building self-esteem, setting boundaries, and prioritizing yourself without guilt. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, I sit down with family life and leadership coach Nellie Harden. If you’ve lost your sense of self within motherho…
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228 | Motherhood and Loneliness: Why Moms Feel Isolated and How to Overcome It
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23:09Let’s address a struggle that many moms experience but rarely talk about: loneliness. Have you ever felt isolated, even while surrounded by your family? You’re not alone. Society often tells us that motherhood alone should be enough to make us feel whole—but what if it’s not? In today’s episode of Moms Without Capes, we’re diving deep into the epid…
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227 | Strong as a Mother: Finding Identity, Joy, and Community with Mary Pust
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27:58Explore how fitness, community, and self-compassion can help moms reconnect with their identity beyond motherhood. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, I sit down with Mary Pust, owner of FIT4MOM Billings as she shares strategies for overcoming mom guilt, setting healthy boundaries, and building supportive connections, empowering moms…
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226 | No Pressure, Just Play: Exploring Hobbies Without Perfectionism
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24:57There is power in play! By rediscovering hobbies, moms can reconnect with their sense of self beyond the demands of motherhood. Many of us fall into the trap of thinking every moment needs to be productive or perfect, but what if joy lies in doing things just for fun? In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we explore how hobbies offer a space to br…
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225 | A Higher Paycheck Doesn’t Make His Time More Important than Yours
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25:37Is your partner’s time more valuable just because he earns a paycheck? Let's dive into the mindset that often leaves moms believing their time is worth less, leading to guilt, burnout, and a loss of identity. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we explore how to shift this narrative, recognize the value of unpaid labor, and communicate effective…
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224 | The Hidden Pressures of Motherhood: 10 Unrealistic Expectations to Let Go Of
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36:36Take a deep dive into the unrealistic expectations society places on moms and how these pressures can lead to burnout, guilt, and feeling lost within motherhood. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we uncover the top 10 harmful beliefs that supermoms often internalize, from the idea that moms should never need a break to the pressure of maintain…
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223 | Co-Dependency in Motherhood: How to Stop Over-functioning and Find Space for Yourself
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25:45Dive into the heart of why so many moms feel responsible for everyone else’s happiness and how this ties into co-dependency. Learn how to recognize the signs of co-dependency in motherhood, such as feeling like it’s your job to manage everyone’s emotions, and why this mindset leads to burnout and emotional exhaustion. We’ll discuss why setting boun…
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222 | Thriving or Just Surviving: Recognizing High Functioning Anxiety in Motherhood
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26:30If you're feeling overwhelmed, constantly overthinking, and driven by perfectionism, this episode is for you. We discuss how high-functioning anxiety can appear successful on the surface, but inside, it fuels worry and emotional exhaustion. You'll learn practical strategies to manage anxiety, including setting realistic expectations, prioritizing s…
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221 | Overcoming Mom Guilt: Setting Boundaries without Feeling Guilty
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26:46Explore what’s really going on when we try to set boundaries to protect our own time and energy. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we are going to look at the common sources of guilt and the reasons we often say yes when we really want to say no. I’ll share with you some steps you can take to set boundaries while managing and even eliminating …
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220 | Touching Down: Conquer Anxiety & Stop Helicopter Parenting
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27:27Explore the deep connection between perfectionism, anxiety, and the all-too-common phenomenon of helicopter parenting. Tune in to learn how relentless hovering, micromanaging, and striving for flawlessness can actually undermine children’s resilience, independence, and self-esteem. Discover how recognizing and managing your own anxiety—and building…
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219 | Three Ways I Almost Killed My Marriage
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24:34In this episode, I share three ways that I was damaging my relationship with my husband. It takes two to make or break a relationship, but I believe that changes one partner makes can have a profound impact on the relationship itself. The changes I made allowed me to show up as my authentic self, ultimately saving our marriage. To schedule a 15 min…
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218 | Uncover your Enneagram Type to Understand Yourself Better
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45:32In this episode of the Moms Without Capes podcast, host Onnie Michalsky discusses the Enneagram as a tool for self-discovery and personal growth, particularly for mothers who may feel lost in their roles. The episode features a conversation with Brit Gross, a certified Enneagram coach, who explains the Enneagram system and provides an overview of t…
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217 | A Secret Weapon for Transform Your To-Do List
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20:59Use this game-changing strategy to help busy moms conquer their overwhelming to-do lists using the Eisenhower Matrix. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, you will learn how to effectively prioritize tasks to boost productivity and find time for self-care, hobbies, and passions beyond motherhood. Get ready to transform your chaotic routine into a…
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216 | Release the Grip of Fear to Live a Fuller Life with Tricia Thornton
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39:47Explore how fear shapes our lives and how we can transform it into a tool for growth. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, Onnie Michalsky sits down with Tricia Thornton, author of Blessing from Fear: Embracing Your Journey – Discovering Your True Self, Tricia shares her insights on understanding trauma, the four fear responses (fight, flight, fr…
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Bonus 4 | Three Years Strong: Moms Share Their Journey to Reconnecting with Themselves
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17:01On this special episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we’re celebrating three incredible years of empowering and supporting mothers! To mark the occasion, I’m bringing on some amazing members of the Moms Without Capes community to share how they reconnect with themselves beyond their roles as moms. Tune in as we dive into their personal storie…
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215 | The Myth That Moms Can’t Relax: Reclaiming Your Right to Rest
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21:36In this episode of Moms Without Capes, we explore the challenges moms face with taking time to unwind and the physical, emotional, and relational tolls of never relaxing. We validate these struggles and offer practical mindset shifts to help moms prioritize their well-being and embrace relaxation without guilt. To schedule a 15 minute consultation …
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214 | The Transformative Practice of Gratitude Journaling with Autumn McKay
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19:43Learn the transformative benefits of practicing gratitude, how to maintain a gratitude journal, and other practical strategies for improving mental health and family relationships. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, host Onnie Michalsky and guest Autumn McKay chat about incorporating gratitude into daily routines to combat the overwhelm and bur…
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213 | Big Fat Lies that Suck the Joy out of Motherhood
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18:54Explore the assumptions and lies that keep us stuck in thinking that our sole purpose is to be a mom. Addressing the lies surrounding motherhood helps us see beyond societal pressures and unrealistic expectations. It lets us challenge stereotypes and rediscover who we are beyond just being a mother. By questioning these ideas, we can find our own i…
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212 | Sort, Organize, Sustain: Building a Home Space that Supports You with Tammy Schmidt
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31:59Learn practical strategies for sustainable home organization with Tammy Schmidt, a mom of three and founder of Sort Organize Sustain. Let's explore the three key steps of sorting, organizing, and sustaining, and explore the importance of prioritizing functionality over aesthetics. Tammy shares helpful tips and insights on maintaining an organized h…
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211 | Beyond the Cape: Recognizing the Signs of Supermom Syndrome
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21:58Like anything, awareness is key and so today I am sharing with you the telltale signs of what to look for to determine if you are stuck in supermom mode. While Supermom syndrome is not a clinical diagnosis, it can show up in lots of different ways and can prevent you from feeling like you have an identity outside of the roles you play. If you would…
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210 | Time Well Spent: Mastering Time Management for a More Balanced Life with Jill Wright
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21:45Dig into time management and learn the importance of weekly planning in this episode. You get personalized time management tips from Jill Wright who identifies challenges that women face in managing their time, including not feeling in control and dealing with overwhelm and comparison. Jill discusses the five types of supermoms and how to create a …
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209 | How to Break Free from People-Pleasing and Stand Up for What You Want
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13:21Discover practical strategies to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and reclaim your sense of self in this episode of Moms Without Capes. From quitting over-apologizing to trusting your own judgment, host Onnie Michalsky guides listeners through actionable steps to assertiveness and authenticity. Learn how to prioritize your needs, build …
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208 | Pinpoint your Love Language to Unlock the Self-Care Code
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15:15Explore how the five love languages can help you practice self-care and self-love. This episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast emphasizes the importance of knowing and using your primary love language to nurture a healthy relationship with yourself. Originally published May 2, 2022 Click here to grab Gary Chapman’s Love Languages book. Support t…
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207 | Living a Purpose Beyond Our Title with Shelley Meche’tte
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29:42Uncover the challenges faced by women in maintaining their identity beyond their roles as mothers and explore strategies for reclaiming a sense of self, detaching from supermom syndrome, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, you will learn the importance of understanding one's purpose, forgiving, and…
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206 | Self-Care is the Best Gift You Can Give Your Family
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23:35Learn the importance of prioritizing self-care and personal fulfillment alongside familial responsibilities. In this episode of Moms Without Capes, host Onnie Michalsky emphasizes the benefits of self-care on the family and shares personal experiences and insights to encourage moms to carve out time for themselves and set boundaries, leading to a m…
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205 | Embrace Imperfections: Redefining What It Means to Be a Good Mom
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14:35Motherhood can come with a lot of pressure, especially with unrealistic expectations of what it means to be a good mother. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we look at the impact of the expectations we hold about our role as a mom and attempt to rewrite the definition of what it means to be a good mom. Join therapist, coach, and mo…
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204 | Understanding the Invisible Load: Tips for Lightening Your Mental Burden with Morgan Cutlip
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28:01Dive into the concept of the mental load carried by mothers, exploring how it impacts relationships and self-identity. Dr. Morgan Cutlip shares with us about the invisible workload and the importance of making it visible through conversations with our partner. This episode was originally published November 20, 2022. To learn more about Dr. Morgan C…
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203 | Embracing Your Voice: The Power of Asserting Your Needs
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14:08Learn the importance of moms prioritizing their needs, reclaiming their identity, and practicing assertiveness. This episode covers the challenges of saying no, different communication styles, self-awareness, and practical strategies for being assertive, including developing nonverbal behaviors, recognizing the importance of one's needs, self-aware…
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202 | Wardrobe Essentials: Building a Closet That Works for You with Jennifer Mackey-Mary
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33:03Looking to boost your wardrobe in a way that better shows off your fit and personality? This episode delves into the journey of reclaiming your sense of identity by finding your sense of style! Host Onnie Michalsky is joined by master stylist, Jennifer Mackey-Mary, who shares about the importance of dressing to feel good, building a capsule wardrob…
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201 | Techniques for Mastering Stress and Finding Your Calm
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30:53Let's dig into the good, the bad, and the ugly of stress. Stress is part of life, and it can wreak havoc on our health, our well-being, our relationships, and our lives and since we are 100% responsible for our own lives, it is our responsibility to learn how to keep our stress levels in check. In this episode, you will learn how! To schedule a 15 …
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200 | From a Husband's Lens: Embracing Identity Beyond Motherhood
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30:18It’s one thing to carve out space for ourselves in the pursuit of reclaiming our identity within motherhood, but what might our partners think about it all? In this episode, we're joined by my partner of 25 years. Jason and I are going to take you behind the scenes of our marriage and spill some secrets about how we've managed to stay together for …
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199 | Balancing Books and Busy Days: Strategies for Making Time to Read
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16:31When’s the last time you sat down and relaxed with a book? If it’s been a while, then this episode was made for you. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we address the challenges that keep you from making time to read and I provide you with practical strategies and tips to overcome these challenges. Join me- therapist, coach, and rec…
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198 | Building Your Village: Support Systems for Modern Moms Lauren Mora
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27:22Have you heard the saying ‘It takes a village to raise a child’? Well, the same can be said about raising a mom and on this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we are talking with Lauren Mora, about her solution to dealing with all the overwhelm and guilt that comes along with being a mom. Join me- therapist, life coach, and mom- as I seek t…
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197 | Your Morning Routine Needs to Evolve through the Seasons of Motherhood
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20:20What we do in the morning can change drastically depending on where you are in your motherhood journey, but one thing is for certain- we need to be aware of our expectations and adapt our routines to our personal needs. In this episode of the Moms Without Capes Podcast, we discuss how a mother's morning routine needs to evolve with the seasons of m…
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