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You’ve been everything for everyone, the mum, the leader, the caretaker, the high achiever.

But now something’s shifted.

And you’re left wondering... who am I, really?

This episode is for the woman quietly realising she no longer recognises herself and doesn’t know how to begin again. Whether it’s your kids growing up, your career changing, a relationship ending, or a subtle sense that the roles you’ve played no longer fit, this isn’t failure. It’s an awakening.

In this powerful, grounding episode of The Happya Life, Clare Deacon explores what it means to lose yourself and how to gently, compassionately rebuild who you really are.

✨ Inside this episode:

The real reason identity loss is so common in midlife (and why it’s not just trauma)

How role changes: motherhood, career shifts, relationship breakdowns, can make you feel invisible

Why survival mode leads to self-forgetting

How to start reconnecting with your true self in small, doable ways

What nervous system regulation has to do with identity rebuilding

How to grieve old roles while creating space for something new

If you’ve ever said “I don’t know who I am anymore,” this is your invitation to come home to yourself, gently, honestly, without rushing.

📩 Reach out to Clare on Instagram or through the website if this speaks to you. Whether you need support, coaching, or just permission to begin, you don’t have to do it alone.

You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

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