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Why Love Feels So Hard with CPTSD (And How to Change That)

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Does love feel overwhelming, triggering, or just plain scary? If you have Complex PTSD, your nervous system might be treating intimacy like a threat, even when you desperately want connection.

In this episode, I break down why CPTSD makes love feel so complicated, what's actually happening in your nervous system when someone gets close, and the real (messy, non-linear) path to trusting love again. If you're wondering about Complex PTSD and relationship, this episode is for you.

You'll learn:

  • What CPTSD actually is and how it's different from PTSD
  • Why your body goes into alarm mode when someone shows you genuine love
  • How childhood attachment wounds show up in adult relationships
  • Practical steps to start rewiring your nervous system for safety in love
  • What to do when you get emotionally triggered by your partner
  • How to support someone you love who has CPTSD

This episode is for you if:

  • You pull away when someone gets too close
  • You're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop in relationships
  • You know you deserve love but your body doesn't feel safe receiving it
  • You love someone with trauma and want to understand how to help

Whether you're struggling to accept love yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a bit of hope and concrete tools for healing.

Resources mentioned:

Original blog post: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/a-cptsd-therapist-shares-tips-to-accept-love-as-a-complex-ptsd-survivor

PTSD vs CPTSD: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/ptsd-vs-cptsd-trauma-therapy

Free Attachment Guide: https://www.subscribepage.com/attachment-style-guide

Connect with the Reclaim Therapy Team: https://www.reclaimtherapy.org

Thanks for listening to Reclaim You with Reclaim Therapy!
To learn more about Reclaim Therapy and how to work with a therapist on the team, head to https://www.reclaimtherapy.org.
Be sure to comment, like and subscribe here, or on YouTube and come follow along on Instagram!

  continue reading

104 episodes

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Manage episode 504198307 series 3481454
Content provided by Sarah Herstich & The Reclaim Therapy Team, Sarah Herstich, and The Reclaim Therapy Team. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Sarah Herstich & The Reclaim Therapy Team, Sarah Herstich, and The Reclaim Therapy Team or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Does love feel overwhelming, triggering, or just plain scary? If you have Complex PTSD, your nervous system might be treating intimacy like a threat, even when you desperately want connection.

In this episode, I break down why CPTSD makes love feel so complicated, what's actually happening in your nervous system when someone gets close, and the real (messy, non-linear) path to trusting love again. If you're wondering about Complex PTSD and relationship, this episode is for you.

You'll learn:

  • What CPTSD actually is and how it's different from PTSD
  • Why your body goes into alarm mode when someone shows you genuine love
  • How childhood attachment wounds show up in adult relationships
  • Practical steps to start rewiring your nervous system for safety in love
  • What to do when you get emotionally triggered by your partner
  • How to support someone you love who has CPTSD

This episode is for you if:

  • You pull away when someone gets too close
  • You're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop in relationships
  • You know you deserve love but your body doesn't feel safe receiving it
  • You love someone with trauma and want to understand how to help

Whether you're struggling to accept love yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a bit of hope and concrete tools for healing.

Resources mentioned:

Original blog post: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/a-cptsd-therapist-shares-tips-to-accept-love-as-a-complex-ptsd-survivor

PTSD vs CPTSD: https://www.sarahherstichlcsw.com/blog/ptsd-vs-cptsd-trauma-therapy

Free Attachment Guide: https://www.subscribepage.com/attachment-style-guide

Connect with the Reclaim Therapy Team: https://www.reclaimtherapy.org

Thanks for listening to Reclaim You with Reclaim Therapy!
To learn more about Reclaim Therapy and how to work with a therapist on the team, head to https://www.reclaimtherapy.org.
Be sure to comment, like and subscribe here, or on YouTube and come follow along on Instagram!

  continue reading

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