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How Do I Stop Resenting My Wife For No Sex?

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Do you feel resentful toward your wife because of a lack of sex in your marriage? You’re not alone. Many men in sexless or low-sex marriages feel lonely, rejected, and ashamed. Resentment builds — not because you’re bad or broken, but because your deeper pain has gone unspoken.

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott shares the story of one coaching client who carried years of quiet anger, bitterness, and rejection. You’ll learn how resentment is not the root problem — but a signal pointing to unhealed pain. And you’ll see how The Secure Husband Process helps men heal the loneliness and shame of feeling unwanted, so they can lead with strength, peace, and truth.

What you’ll learn in this video:
✔️ Why resentment builds in sexless marriages
✔️ How to recognize the real pain underneath resentment
✔️ The role of childhood wounds in shaping your reaction to rejection
✔️ How to stop abandoning yourself when intimacy is missing
✔️ Why compassion for her wounds matters — but so do your boundaries
✔️ How to own your sexual needs without guilt or shame
✔️ What it looks like to become grounded and secure, even if sex doesn’t return

You can stop resenting your wife without shutting down, blowing up, or giving up. The answer isn’t found in trying harder to earn sex. It’s in learning how to face your pain, honor your worth, and lead from truth.

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. It’s not a sales pitch or pressure — just a conversation about what’s happening in your marriage and how coaching might support you.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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