In this episode of The Happy HSP Podcast, therapist, author, and speaker Barbara Allen-Williams shares how leaning into empathy and embracing a quiet style of leadership allows HSPs to rise above social norms and fid their stride. She shares why empathy is a strength, how to honor your needs without apology, and practical ways to step into leadership that feels authentic to you.

We talk about what it means to be enough, the importance of rest, and the powerful energy that HSPs bring to the world simply by being themselves.

Barbara shares:

• Why “quiet leadership” is not about being small, but about leading with purpose and empathy.
• How highly sensitive people can embrace confidence without masking their sensitivity.
• The role of authenticity in building trust and influence.
• Practical strategies for protecting your energy while leading others.
• Her personal journey toward self-acceptance as an HSP.

Topics covered:

• Understanding the concept of quiet leadership for HSPs.
• How empathy can transform relationships and work environments.
• Navigating leadership challenges as a highly sensitive person.
• Building self-confidence without abandoning your true nature.
• The connection between authenticity and resilience.

About Barbara:

Barbara Allen-Williams founded Growing Unlimited Therapeutic Consultancy (2002) and the National Centre for High Sensitivity (2010-19). She is a retired integrative therapist, group worker, author and a therapeutic supervisor with 30 years of experience. She writes and speaks on the topic of high sensitivity as well as facilitates the empowerment of individual HSPs as a mentor 1-1. She also hosts groups and workshops nationally and internationally. She is a founding member of International Consultants in High Sensitivity and attended training with Elaine Aron PhD in San Francisco.

Her book The Little Book of HSP Wisdom has just been published and is available in paperback and eBook formats at Amazon and Troubador, and in paperback at Waterstones and Blackwells. There is also a new Facebook page for the book where readers can discuss topics arising from the book (https://www.facebook.com/groups/1029004049279908).

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Website: www.growingunlimited.co.uk

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About Kimberly:

Kimberly Marshall is a career coach for highly sensitive people (HSPs) and host of The Happy HSP Podcast. After 20 years in the publishing industry working for companies like Time Inc., Monster.com, and W. W. Norton, she left her corporate career to pursue work that better suited her HSP needs. She now helps HSPs overcome burnout and low confidence in the workplace and create gentle and nurturing careers that bring them lots of purpose, meaning, and joy.

Through her work and creative ventures, Kimberly hopes to shed more light on the reality of living with high sensitivity and inspire more HSPs to embrace their empathetic, loving, and gentle natures.

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