In this episode of The Circle, we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic identity.

Drawing from men’s work principles and queer embodiment perspectives, we explore why accomplishments alone can’t sustain real fulfillment. Instead, we invite listeners to consider how presence, integrity, and meaningful relationships can shape a more holistic sense of self. Whether you’ve struggled with feeling “not enough” without certain titles or are simply curious about men’s work, personal growth, and authentic living, this conversation offers fresh insights and practical steps to break free from the “doing” trap.