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As An Anxious People-Pleaser I Used To Think I Wasn’t Confident Enough — But It Was Never About Confidence | Ep 49
Manage episode 507971635 series 3600067
For years, I told myself the reason I couldn’t speak up, share my thoughts, or truly let myself be seen was because I wasn’t confident enough.
Maybe you’ve told yourself the same thing — that you just need to “push through,” “fake it till you make it,” or somehow be braver.
But recently, something happened that made me realise the problem isn’t about confidence at all.
In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about:
- The two inner voices we all carry — the one that tells us to stay quiet, and the one that dares us to speak up.
- The powerful experience that reconnected me to my purpose and voice
- Why confidence isn’t the real issue — and what you truly need instead.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re hiding parts of yourself or holding back from sharing your gifts, this episode will help you understand why — and give you hope that it’s possible to show up authentically, without pushing or pretending.
Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.
Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video
Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/
Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/
51 episodes
Manage episode 507971635 series 3600067
For years, I told myself the reason I couldn’t speak up, share my thoughts, or truly let myself be seen was because I wasn’t confident enough.
Maybe you’ve told yourself the same thing — that you just need to “push through,” “fake it till you make it,” or somehow be braver.
But recently, something happened that made me realise the problem isn’t about confidence at all.
In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about:
- The two inner voices we all carry — the one that tells us to stay quiet, and the one that dares us to speak up.
- The powerful experience that reconnected me to my purpose and voice
- Why confidence isn’t the real issue — and what you truly need instead.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re hiding parts of yourself or holding back from sharing your gifts, this episode will help you understand why — and give you hope that it’s possible to show up authentically, without pushing or pretending.
Take the quiz! What's Your People-Pleaser Personality? and discover my 6 step method to unlocking Clarity, Change and Freedom so you can say yes to the real you - without anxiety and guilt.
Get your FREE Video Visibility Toolkit - discover how to go from cringe to confidence on video
Join me over on Instagram for regular updates, posts and talks about all things people-pleasing and being visible and feel free to DM me any content ideas: https://www.instagram.com/charlotte_bailey_therapies/
Visit my website for more information, resources and details on how to work with me https://www.charlottebaileytherapies.com/
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