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What We Can Learn From Prisoners About Applying Emotional Intelligence In The Real World | with Sunil Joseph

2d ago 1:20:15

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What if the emotions you’ve been taught to hide are actually the key to deeper connection?

In this episode, I’m joined by Sunil Joseph, mindfulness instructor, empathy coach, and former software developer. Sunil’s mission is to help us normalize all emotions so we can better process what we feel and connect more authentically with others. In our conversation, he guides me through this practice in real time, showing how naming and expressing emotions can shift everything. If you’ve ever struggled to understand or work through your feelings, this episode will give you tools to turn toward them instead of pushing them away.

Key Takeaways

Shared humanity makes vulnerability safe. When you show your struggles, you create space for someone else to meet you with compassion.
Prioritize emotional resonance over intellectual empathy. Understanding a person’s need at an emotional level changes the way they respond, making your interactions more effective.
Balance logic and emotion to move forward. While logic reminds you of past successes, emotion brings fear; acknowledging both without judgment enables growth and action.

Episode Highlights

When your dream life makes you unhappy, learn to chase meaning instead of following expectations.
Learn to face hidden childhood wounds to understand your present and unlock freedom.
Master the four steps of nonviolent communication (NVC): what happened, your feelings, your needs, and your requests.
The power of shared humanity that turns empathy and vulnerability into daily practice and real connection.
Learn the universal needs in NVC and stop confusing it with strategies, so you can meet what truly matters without blaming others.
Understanding emotional needs builds real connection, but it takes consistent, lifelong practice.
Use mindfulness to bridge the gap between stimulus and response, giving you space to choose your reaction.
Discover how NVC revealed hidden feelings and unmet needs from my personal “ouch” moment.
Serve the purpose, not the title: Skills are most powerful when aligned with the work or calling that matters to you.

Guest Bio

Sunil Joseph is a certified GRIP Facilitator, mindfulness instructor, and Nonviolent Communication coach. In 2018, he visited a GRIP class at San Quentin and was profoundly moved by the humanity and compassion in the room, a moment that transformed his path. He joined the program, eventually training to become a certified facilitator, supporting students in their growth, healing, and transformation through restorative justice. Sunil also leads weekly online meditation classes and NVC coaching sessions. With a Master’s in Computer Science and 25 years of software development experience, he brings a unique blend of technical expertise and human-centered insight to his work.

Sunil’s Website, LinkedIn

Show Credits

Edited by: Curtis Fritsch

Produced by: Debby Germino

Published by: Vim Pangantihon

Music by: Thomas Cepeda

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What if the emotions you’ve been taught to hide are actually the key to deeper connection?