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#130 Outgrowing Success: Why Your Role No Longer Fits — and What’s Next
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When success starts to feel like a cage, it’s not failure — it’s growth. Discover why roles that once fit now feel restrictive, how to spot the signs, and what’s next when you outgrow success.
Success was supposed to feel fulfilling. But for many high-capacity humans, the very role you worked so hard to build — the one that gave you security, respect, and purpose — now feels like a cage.
In today’s episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly unpacks why outgrowing a role doesn’t mean failure — it means your identity is expanding. Drawing on Role Identity Theory and the lived experience of tennis champion Andre Agassi, this episode reveals:
- Why your nervous system clings to roles, even when they no longer fit
- How role identity attachment develops and why it makes transitions so destabilizing
- The difference between identity and role — and how to know when you’ve outgrown success
- What recalibration makes possible when success no longer feels like enough
Today’s Micro Recalibration:
Ask yourself: What role once served me but now feels constricting? Write it down. Awareness is the first step toward release.
If you’ve ever thought, “I should be happy, but this no longer feels like me,” this episode will help you see the tension for what it really is: a signal that it’s time to recalibrate.
If this episode gave you language you’ve been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it.
Explore Identity-Level Recalibration
→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights
→ Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you
→ Download the Misalignment Audit
→ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter
→ Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort
This isn’t therapy. This isn’t coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.
750 episodes
Manage episode 506746320 series 2771558
When success starts to feel like a cage, it’s not failure — it’s growth. Discover why roles that once fit now feel restrictive, how to spot the signs, and what’s next when you outgrow success.
Success was supposed to feel fulfilling. But for many high-capacity humans, the very role you worked so hard to build — the one that gave you security, respect, and purpose — now feels like a cage.
In today’s episode of The Recalibration, Julie Holly unpacks why outgrowing a role doesn’t mean failure — it means your identity is expanding. Drawing on Role Identity Theory and the lived experience of tennis champion Andre Agassi, this episode reveals:
- Why your nervous system clings to roles, even when they no longer fit
- How role identity attachment develops and why it makes transitions so destabilizing
- The difference between identity and role — and how to know when you’ve outgrown success
- What recalibration makes possible when success no longer feels like enough
Today’s Micro Recalibration:
Ask yourself: What role once served me but now feels constricting? Write it down. Awareness is the first step toward release.
If you’ve ever thought, “I should be happy, but this no longer feels like me,” this episode will help you see the tension for what it really is: a signal that it’s time to recalibrate.
If this episode gave you language you’ve been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it.
Explore Identity-Level Recalibration
→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights
→ Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you
→ Download the Misalignment Audit
→ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter
→ Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort
This isn’t therapy. This isn’t coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.
750 episodes
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