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Are You Helping or Enabling? Finding Peace with Loving Detachment to Recover Your Soul
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Are You Helping or Enabling? Finding Peace in Loving Detachment
It’s such a fine line - the space between helping and enabling - and that line looks different for every one of us.
In this episode, I talk about what it means to love and care for someone without losing ourselves in the process. In the Recover Your Soul journey, we’re learning to see through a new perception - one that honors the soul’s path, both ours and theirs.
Sometimes what we call “helping” is actually keeping someone from the discomfort or consequences they need to experience to grow. And sometimes, it truly is right to offer support. There’s no single answer. The work is to slow down, connect with your higher self, and listen for the truth that comes from your most healed and awakened heart.
As we recover, we begin to understand that suffering to save someone else doesn’t serve them - and it doesn’t serve us either. Real love allows others to walk their own journey while we stay centered in our peace, trust, and compassion.
If you’ve been trying to help someone and feel torn about what’s “right,” this conversation is for you.
Because Recovering Your Soul isn’t about getting it perfect — it’s about learning to love in a new way.
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.
Rev Rachel & Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net
- FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month
- Work the Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session
- Working the Steps Program WORKSTEPS%50
- Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group
- RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts.
- Transcripts
Chapters
1. Enabling Or Helping (00:00:00)
2. Welcome And Community Intentions (00:02:34)
3. Defining Enabling Through Awareness (00:04:16)
4. Meaning, Suffering, And Soul Growth (00:08:35)
5. Family History And Enmeshment (00:12:51)
6. Closing The Bank Of Mom (00:17:23)
7. Redefining Support And Boundaries (00:21:42)
8. Tickets, Towing, And A Hard Choice (00:26:40)
9. Holding Your Line With Love (00:30:54)
10. Community Resources And Next Steps (00:39:44)
299 episodes
Are You Helping or Enabling? Finding Peace with Loving Detachment to Recover Your Soul
Recover Your Soul: A Spiritual Path to a Happy and Healthy Life
Manage episode 518669325 series 3000598
Send one way text to Rev Rachel
Are You Helping or Enabling? Finding Peace in Loving Detachment
It’s such a fine line - the space between helping and enabling - and that line looks different for every one of us.
In this episode, I talk about what it means to love and care for someone without losing ourselves in the process. In the Recover Your Soul journey, we’re learning to see through a new perception - one that honors the soul’s path, both ours and theirs.
Sometimes what we call “helping” is actually keeping someone from the discomfort or consequences they need to experience to grow. And sometimes, it truly is right to offer support. There’s no single answer. The work is to slow down, connect with your higher self, and listen for the truth that comes from your most healed and awakened heart.
As we recover, we begin to understand that suffering to save someone else doesn’t serve them - and it doesn’t serve us either. Real love allows others to walk their own journey while we stay centered in our peace, trust, and compassion.
If you’ve been trying to help someone and feel torn about what’s “right,” this conversation is for you.
Because Recovering Your Soul isn’t about getting it perfect — it’s about learning to love in a new way.
This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not allied or representative of any organizations or religions, but is based on the opinions and experience of Rev. Rachel Harrison or guests. The host claims no responsibility to any person or entity for any liability, loss, or damage caused or alleged to be caused directly or indirectly as a result of the use, application, or interpretation of the information presented herein. Take what you need and leave the rest.
Rev Rachel & Recover Your Soul www.recoveryoursoul.net
- FREE Support Group on Zoom 6-7PM MT on the 1st Monday of the Month
- Work the Process with Rev Rachel TRYASESSION for 40% off 1st session
- Working the Steps Program WORKSTEPS%50
- Instagram, Insight Timer, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook private Facebook group
- RYS Bonus Podcast Patreon Member or subscribing on Apple Podcasts.
- Transcripts
Chapters
1. Enabling Or Helping (00:00:00)
2. Welcome And Community Intentions (00:02:34)
3. Defining Enabling Through Awareness (00:04:16)
4. Meaning, Suffering, And Soul Growth (00:08:35)
5. Family History And Enmeshment (00:12:51)
6. Closing The Bank Of Mom (00:17:23)
7. Redefining Support And Boundaries (00:21:42)
8. Tickets, Towing, And A Hard Choice (00:26:40)
9. Holding Your Line With Love (00:30:54)
10. Community Resources And Next Steps (00:39:44)
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