Some seasons of marriage stretch you in ways you never saw coming — especially when you’re doing the inner work and your partner says he wants to… but his actions don’t quite match your pace. I’ve walked that road. I know what it feels like to carry the emotional weight of the relationship, to want growth so badly you could almost shake it into happening, and to wonder if things will ever shift.

This conversation pulls back the curtain on what was actually happening inside me during those years — and how, even recently, the chaos of our renovation brought an old pattern to the surface. You’ll hear why resisting life (and resisting your partner’s timing) creates suffering, what changed instantly when I stopped trying to manage his healing, and the quiet kind of feminine leadership that invites a man forward instead of pushing him away.

If you’ve been longing for more connection, more emotional honesty, or simply more ease in your marriage, this one will feel like a deep exhale.

Come join me — and if this speaks to you, make sure you’re subscribed and share the episode with another woman who’s carrying too much on her own.

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