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Why You'd Rather Lose Than Be Treated Unfairly

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What do abandoned mansions in Bucharest have to do with dirty dishes and emotional resentment?

In this episode, I explore how our desire for fairness can lead us to self-sabotage — and how Stoic justice asks us to think beyond pride, punishment, and being right.

We’ll walk through a real-world example of decades-long property disputes, connect it to the Ultimatum Game in behavioral economics, and look at how these same dynamics show up in our everyday relationships — from family drama to who does the dishes.

This is an invitation to reflect on what you're holding onto, and whether it’s time to build something new — even without the apology or closure you thought you needed.

***

Hi! I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, an American in England and fellow citizen of the world. A few things I love: Stoicism, great vegetarian tacos, and helping my coaching clients thrive in all areas of their lives.

sarahmikutel.com ❤️

Do you ever go blank or start rambling when someone puts you on the spot?

I created a free Conversation Cheat Sheet with simple formulas you can use so you can respond with clarity, whether you’re in a meeting or just talking with friends.

Download it at sarahmikutel.com/blanknomore and start feeling more confident in your conversations today.

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Chapters

1. Why You'd Rather Lose Than Be Treated Unfairly (00:00:00)

2. The Ultimatum Game (00:02:25)

3. Are we losing by holding out for the win? (00:05:37)

4. Stoic justice (00:07:10)

5. What do you need to let go of? (00:08:43)

48 episodes

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Manage episode 489966252 series 3238359
Content provided by Mindset & Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel and Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Mindset & Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel and Communication Coach Sarah Mikutel or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

What do abandoned mansions in Bucharest have to do with dirty dishes and emotional resentment?

In this episode, I explore how our desire for fairness can lead us to self-sabotage — and how Stoic justice asks us to think beyond pride, punishment, and being right.

We’ll walk through a real-world example of decades-long property disputes, connect it to the Ultimatum Game in behavioral economics, and look at how these same dynamics show up in our everyday relationships — from family drama to who does the dishes.

This is an invitation to reflect on what you're holding onto, and whether it’s time to build something new — even without the apology or closure you thought you needed.

***

Hi! I’m your host, Sarah Mikutel, an American in England and fellow citizen of the world. A few things I love: Stoicism, great vegetarian tacos, and helping my coaching clients thrive in all areas of their lives.

sarahmikutel.com ❤️

Do you ever go blank or start rambling when someone puts you on the spot?

I created a free Conversation Cheat Sheet with simple formulas you can use so you can respond with clarity, whether you’re in a meeting or just talking with friends.

Download it at sarahmikutel.com/blanknomore and start feeling more confident in your conversations today.

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Why You'd Rather Lose Than Be Treated Unfairly (00:00:00)

2. The Ultimatum Game (00:02:25)

3. Are we losing by holding out for the win? (00:05:37)

4. Stoic justice (00:07:10)

5. What do you need to let go of? (00:08:43)

48 episodes

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