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241. Finding Love Again After Divorce: Laurie Gerber on Healing, Dating Tactics, and the 3H Method
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What if the real reason you’re struggling with dating after divorce isn’t apps, bad luck, or a lack of available partners—but a hidden disbelief in love itself?
If you’ve found yourself swiping endlessly, feeling exhausted by the dating scene, or doubting that real love is out there for you (especially if you’re a woman over 40 or 50), this episode will hit close to home. Too many divorced women get caught in a cycle of self-sabotage, without realizing the biggest block isn’t “no good men”—it’s their own unexamined beliefs and unresolved wounds.
In this conversation with renowned life coach Laurie Gerber, you’ll discover:
- The “3H Method” to honestly assess your desires (head, heart, and hoo-ha!) so you stop settling and start attracting real matches.
- Why pausing to do your inner work will actually accelerate finding meaningful love—and how to detox from your past relationship patterns for good.
- Tactical dating strategies for women with children, including how to talk to your kids and protect your own boundaries (without guilt or self-sacrifice).
Don’t let invisible beliefs hold you back or waste more time—press play now to learn how to clear your biggest obstacles and finally create the love story you truly desire!
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A podcast exploring the journey of life after divorce, delving into topics like divorce grief, loneliness, anxiety, manifesting, the impact of different attachment styles and codependency, setting healthy boundaries, energy healing with homeopathy, managing the nervous system during divorce depression, understanding the stages of divorce grief, and using the Law of Attraction and EMDR therapy in the process of building your confidence, forgiveness and letting go.
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Chapters
1. Meeting Dating Coach Lori Gerber (00:00:00)
2. Why Women Don't Believe in Love (00:03:12)
3. Understanding the Three H's: Head, Heart, Hoo-ha (00:06:39)
4. Taking a Dating Pause to Do the Work (00:10:29)
5. Dating with Kids and the Balanced Story (00:16:25)
6. The Dating Spreadsheet: The 3-H Chart (00:22:11)
7. Sex, Monogamy, and Setting Boundaries (00:34:43)
8. Bold Truths About Trauma and Dating (00:41:37)
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