Stop Choosing the Wrong Coping Strategy
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Too many anxiety tools, not sure which to use? In this episode, I’ll teach you a simple 2-step rule to match the right tool to your stress level. You’ll learn why big anxiety doesn’t require big strategies—it requires easy, low-thinking tools—and how to build a personalized toolbox that grows more effective the more you practice.
You’ll learn how to:
- Quickly rate the intensity of your anxiety
- Match strategies to your anxiety level with confidence
- Turn once “hard” tools into automatic go-to’s
- Expand your toolbox so you’re never stuck without options
Timestamps
- 00:30 – Why one-size-fits-all doesn’t work for anxiety
- 02:01 – The two-step process: measure, then match
- 02:51 – Why high anxiety needs easy tools
- 04:36 – My top “easy tools” for intense moments
- 05:54 – Making harder tools automatic through practice
- 09:42 – Building your personal “easy list”
- 10:37 – How to practice new strategies before you need them
- 11:51 – How to measure your anxiety
- 15:03– Summary and key takeaways
- 17:10 – Little acts of kindness add up
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Chapters
1. Stop Choosing the Wrong Coping Strategy (00:00:00)
2. Why one-size-fits-all doesn’t work for anxiety (00:00:30)
3. The two-step process: measure, then match (00:02:01)
4. Why high anxiety needs easy tools (00:02:51)
5. My top “easy tools” for intense moments (00:04:36)
6. Making harder tools automatic through practice (00:05:54)
7. Building your personal “easy list” (00:09:42)
8. How to practice new strategies before you need them (00:10:37)
9. How to measure your anxiety (00:11:51)
10. Little acts of kindness add up (00:17:10)
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