113. What Will You Pass On? The Secret Power Of Mentorship This Empty Nest Life podcast

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113. What Will You Pass On? The Secret Power of Mentorship

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When your focus shifts from raising children to looking at your own next chapter, it’s easy to see this as an ending. But in reality, it’s the beginning of one of life's most emotionally enriching phases. In this inspiring episode, Dr. Deborah Heiser—host of The After 40 Podcast and founder of The Mentor Project—reframes aging and empty nesting as opportunities for growth, connection, and fulfillment.

While society often emphasizes physical decline with age this period of "generativity versus stagnation" is a prime time to give back—through mentoring, creating, exploring, or sharing our wisdom. Dr. Heiser discusses the five essential components of true mentorship—generativity, receptivity, intrinsic motivation, meaningful connection, and trust—and emphasizes that everyone has something valuable to offer, regardless of age or background. From passing down family recipes to guiding new community members, mentorship enriches both mentor and mentee, creating a ripple of connection and purpose.

Highlights & Key Takeaways:

Our physical decline doesn’t define our emotional or spiritual growth; it continues upward throughout life.
The empty nest phase opens up mental and emotional bandwidth for purpose-driven living.
Midlife is an ideal time to give back—whether through mentoring, sharing knowledge, or exploring new interests.
Mentoring creates purpose and satisfaction for both mentor and mentee, fostering connection that money can’t buy.

Deborah Heiser Bio

Deborah Heiser, Ph.D., is an Applied Developmental Psychologist, a TEDx speaker, consultant, author, and Founder of The Mentor Project, and an Adjunct Professor in the Psychology Department at SUNY Old Westbury.
She has been quoted in The New York Times, Seattle Times, Dallas Times and contributes to Psychology Today. Her research covers a wide range of topics related to aging, including depression identification, dementia, and frailty with grants awarded from NIA/NIH and Pfizer. She received an international award for her research on depression identification, as well as serving for 9 years on the Board of the State Society on Aging of New York.

Find Deborah Online: LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, Website

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Chapters

1. Aging's Emotional Upward Trajectory (00:00:00)

2. Welcome to This Empty Nest Life (00:04:14)

3. What We Can Look Forward To (00:06:29)

4. Mentorship: What It Is and Isn't (00:12:34)

5. The Mentor Project: Connecting Generations (00:21:06)

6. Becoming a Mentor and Creating Impact (00:28:26)

7. Being an Example of What's Possible (00:32:25)

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