In this episode of The Lavender Fix, I’m sharing something a little more personal.

A few years ago, I went through a divorce that left me questioning everything — not just about love, but about myself. I didn’t think I’d find love again. In fact, I wasn’t sure I even wanted to. The idea of starting over felt exhausting…and honestly, a bit hopeless.

But healing has a strange way of sneaking up on you when you're not looking. I spent time getting to know myself again; rebuilding trust with my own instincts, setting boundaries I’d previously let slide, and learning how to sit with silence instead of running from it.

And then, I met B. It wasn’t a grand love story or anything. It was steady. Safe. Kind. The kind of relationship I didn’t recognize at first because it didn’t trigger old patterns, and that’s exactly what made it right.

In this episode, I sit down with B and unpack what it looked like to move through the grief of divorce for both of us, and how we eventually ended up in the healthiest relationship of our lives. If you’ve been where I’ve been: heartbroken, tired, and unsure, I hope this one feels like a deep breath. 💙