Death has a way of stopping us in our tracks, forcing us to confront what truly matters. After learning about Charlie Kirk's shocking death, I found myself overwhelmed with emotion and struck by a familiar, uncomfortable question: If I had known his time was so short, would I have lived differently?
This moment of tragedy serves as a powerful reminder about the fragility of life and how easily we become disconnected from what matters most. We get caught up in traffic frustrations, minor inconveniences, and daily stresses while neglecting the relationships and purposes that give our lives meaning. We assume there will always be more time—more hugs with our children, more moments with our spouse, more opportunities to pursue our dreams and make our mark on the world.
I've been here before. When I sat in that jail cell facing a life sentence, everything suddenly came into focus. I made a promise that if given a second chance, I would live all-in from that moment forward. Yet even with that hard-earned wisdom, I still catch myself slipping back into old patterns, taking precious moments for granted. That's why these wake-up calls, though painful, are so necessary. They remind us to analyze our lives with brutal honesty: Are we present enough for our families? Are we procrastinating on our purpose? Are we standing for something meaningful, even when it's difficult? The world needs people willing to fight the good fight—individuals committed to living with intention and courage. Your family needs it. Your community needs it. And deep down, your soul needs it too. Don't wait for tragedy to remind you what matters most.