Your kids don’t need a perfect dad. They need a present one. That simple truth frames a candid conversation about fatherhood after addiction: how to carry responsibility without letting shame run the show, how to correct your children while you’re still healing, and how to rebuild trust with actions that match your words.
We dig into the moments that test every parent: the split second where guilt tempts you to avoid discipline, the surge of defensiveness when you’ve overreacted, and the awkward first steps toward a real apology. We break down what ownership sounds like, why “I was wrong” is a strength move, and how consistent, small follow-through restores credibility faster than big promises. You’ll hear practical examples for being present with your spouse and each child—putting the phone down, learning their love language, and choosing patience when they’re still figuring life out.
We also talk boundaries and grace: setting clear standards at home and actually keeping them, even when it’s hard. From honoring “let your yes be yes” to welcoming change when kids meet the conditions you set, we show how principled leadership creates safety. Along the way, we reflect on God’s example of fathering—steady, patient, and truthful—and how mirroring that kindness reshapes families over time. If you’ve ever felt unqualified to lead because of your past, this conversation will remind you that presence beats perfection and that growth can happen right where you stand.
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Welcome to Rebuilding Life After Addiction. I’m Justin Franich — I’ve led recovery programs, pastored churches, and walked hundreds of men into real transformation. This podcast gives you the tools, truth, and straight talk to rebuild your life through Jesus. Let’s jump in.

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