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The Communication Upgrade Every Man Needs
Manage episode 513374358 series 3012945
In this conversation, Charles and Dan unpack one of the most practical interviews they’ve ever heard on The Diary of a CEO—Steven Bartlett’s talk with body-language expert Vanessa Van Edwards.
Instead of vague “be confident” advice, this episode focuses on clear, actionable steps that make communication more intentional and effective.
They break down:
- How warmth and competence shape every first impression
- The body-language cues that build trust (and the ones that destroy it)
- Why open posture and visible palms instantly change how people read you
- The difference between uptalk and downtalk—and how Obama mastered it
- What AirPods, small talk, and friendship say about modern connection
- The subtle gestures that make others mirror and agree with you
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, overlooked, or disconnected, this episode shows how to realign your physical cues with your intentions—and become someone people actually hear.
** The link I forgot to include to the YouTube video of Vanessa Van Edwards on The Diary of a CEO: https://youtu.be/VHUrdELKjDw?si=Co1Hxdn70PWjl9V1
🎧 Watch or listen to every episode at mindfullymasculine.com
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Chapters
1. Open Posture, Palms, First Impressions (00:00:00)
2. Why Communication Drives Success (00:02:25)
3. Ambiverts, Energy, and Social Settings (00:05:50)
4. AirPods, Small Talk, and Making Friends (00:09:05)
5. From Small Talk to Real Friendship (00:15:30)
6. Likability, Popularity, and Liking Others (00:20:40)
7. Posture Cues and The Trust Window (00:24:15)
8. Chin Up vs. Down, Ancient Signals (00:28:20)
9. Reading Quirks Without Writing People Off (00:33:10)
10. Certainty in Voice: Downspeaking vs Uptalk (00:36:45)
11. Eye Cues and Lower-Lid Compression (00:40:00)
207 episodes
The Communication Upgrade Every Man Needs
Mindfully Masculine: Personal Growth and Mental Health for Men
Manage episode 513374358 series 3012945
In this conversation, Charles and Dan unpack one of the most practical interviews they’ve ever heard on The Diary of a CEO—Steven Bartlett’s talk with body-language expert Vanessa Van Edwards.
Instead of vague “be confident” advice, this episode focuses on clear, actionable steps that make communication more intentional and effective.
They break down:
- How warmth and competence shape every first impression
- The body-language cues that build trust (and the ones that destroy it)
- Why open posture and visible palms instantly change how people read you
- The difference between uptalk and downtalk—and how Obama mastered it
- What AirPods, small talk, and friendship say about modern connection
- The subtle gestures that make others mirror and agree with you
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, overlooked, or disconnected, this episode shows how to realign your physical cues with your intentions—and become someone people actually hear.
** The link I forgot to include to the YouTube video of Vanessa Van Edwards on The Diary of a CEO: https://youtu.be/VHUrdELKjDw?si=Co1Hxdn70PWjl9V1
🎧 Watch or listen to every episode at mindfullymasculine.com
Support the show
Chapters
1. Open Posture, Palms, First Impressions (00:00:00)
2. Why Communication Drives Success (00:02:25)
3. Ambiverts, Energy, and Social Settings (00:05:50)
4. AirPods, Small Talk, and Making Friends (00:09:05)
5. From Small Talk to Real Friendship (00:15:30)
6. Likability, Popularity, and Liking Others (00:20:40)
7. Posture Cues and The Trust Window (00:24:15)
8. Chin Up vs. Down, Ancient Signals (00:28:20)
9. Reading Quirks Without Writing People Off (00:33:10)
10. Certainty in Voice: Downspeaking vs Uptalk (00:36:45)
11. Eye Cues and Lower-Lid Compression (00:40:00)
207 episodes
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