In this episode of Midlife by Design: Tea with Self, I explore the quiet truth that real inner work isn’t about fixing, it’s about remembering. It’s not a project or a performance; it’s a homecoming. This reflection is for the woman in midlife who’s tired of striving and ready to return to herself. I talk about what it means to soften into who we already are, to sit beside what aches, to listen beneath the noise, and to let healing move at the pace of roots.
True transformation, I’ve learned, doesn’t happen through grand gestures, but through the smallest acts of self-honouring, resting before the collapse, telling the truth even when your voice shakes, letting joy and grief both have space. This is what midlife has taught me: we don’t need to perfect ourselves, only to return to who we’ve always been.
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