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231. How to Stop Being the “Good Girl”: End People-Pleasing, Perfectionism & Emotional Outsourcing

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If your self-worth depends on being liked, playing the “good girl,” or keeping everyone else happy, you’re stuck in Emotional Outsourcing™. In this episode, our bestie Bea Albina, a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Master Certified Life Coach, and author of End Emotional Outsourcing™, is back and teaching us how to quit people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependent habits FOR GOOD.

We cover:

  • Why we emotionally outsource in the first place. Bea explains how codependency, people-pleasing, and perfectionism are survival strategies we learned early on, NOT character flaws.
  • How Emotional Outsourcing™ keeps you stuck and miserable. We unpack the hidden ways outsourcing your worth drains your energy and relationships.
  • The nervous system’s role in healing. Bea shares SIMPLE somatic and polyvagal tools to help you actually regulate and build resilience.
  • Why people-pleasing sometimes feels safer than saying no. Learn how your brain and body keep you locked in old patterns and how to break free.
  • Practical ways to set boundaries without guilt. Simple scripts and reframes for protecting your energy without shame.
  • How to move from perfectionism to self-trust. Shift from performing for approval to living as your authentic self.
  • Daily practices to reconnect with your worth. Because you are SO worthy. Bea teaches us grounding tools to build confidence, self-compassion, and inner safety.

PREORDER BEA'S BOOK HERE! (and then go to her website HERE to get all the special preorder goodies!)

⁠Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE!

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  continue reading

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Content provided by Cassandra Anderson, Emma Norman, and Cass Anderson. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Cassandra Anderson, Emma Norman, and Cass Anderson or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

If your self-worth depends on being liked, playing the “good girl,” or keeping everyone else happy, you’re stuck in Emotional Outsourcing™. In this episode, our bestie Bea Albina, a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Master Certified Life Coach, and author of End Emotional Outsourcing™, is back and teaching us how to quit people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependent habits FOR GOOD.

We cover:

  • Why we emotionally outsource in the first place. Bea explains how codependency, people-pleasing, and perfectionism are survival strategies we learned early on, NOT character flaws.
  • How Emotional Outsourcing™ keeps you stuck and miserable. We unpack the hidden ways outsourcing your worth drains your energy and relationships.
  • The nervous system’s role in healing. Bea shares SIMPLE somatic and polyvagal tools to help you actually regulate and build resilience.
  • Why people-pleasing sometimes feels safer than saying no. Learn how your brain and body keep you locked in old patterns and how to break free.
  • Practical ways to set boundaries without guilt. Simple scripts and reframes for protecting your energy without shame.
  • How to move from perfectionism to self-trust. Shift from performing for approval to living as your authentic self.
  • Daily practices to reconnect with your worth. Because you are SO worthy. Bea teaches us grounding tools to build confidence, self-compassion, and inner safety.

PREORDER BEA'S BOOK HERE! (and then go to her website HERE to get all the special preorder goodies!)

⁠Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE!

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

  continue reading

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