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9. How to Set Boundaries in Midlife Without Feeling Guilty or Selfish

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Do you struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish? You’re not alone. Many women in midlife have spent years being the dependable one—the helper, the fixer, the peacekeeper—until one day, they realize they’re completely drained.

In this episode of Her Next Chapter, Diana Guintu dives into one of the most important yet misunderstood parts of personal growth: boundaries. Through the story of her client Sherry, who went from overwhelmed and resentful to grounded and at peace, Diana reveals how boundaries aren’t about creating conflict—they’re about creating clarity.

You’ll learn the three key principles that transformed Sherry’s life and discover Diana’s 3C Boundary Framework to help you communicate, commit, and create space for what truly matters. Because when you honor your own boundaries, you reclaim your peace, confidence, and power.

💡 Here’s what we’ll dive into today:

✨Boundaries are not about conflict—they’re about clarity.
✨Boundaries show others how to respect and support you.
✨Healthy boundaries protect your energy, time, and priorities.
✨Boundaries start with you: self-respect begins with self-honoring.
✨ Communicating your needs clearly helps you build stronger relationships.
✨ Every “no” creates space for a more aligned “yes.”
3C Boundary Framework:
1️⃣ Communicate – Express your boundaries clearly and kindly.
2️⃣ Commit – Uphold your boundaries to build self-trust.
3️⃣ Create Space – Remember, boundaries aren’t just about saying no to others—they’re about saying yes to yourself.

When women thrive, everyone around them benefits.

🌟 Want to connect with other midlife women who are ready to reinvent themselves? Join the Her Next Chapter Podcast Community today! https://www.facebook.com/groups/hernextchapterinmidlife

Want to stop doubting yourself and finally own your confidence? Grab my free guide 5 Secrets to Overcome Imposter Syndrome right here! https://dianaguintuspeaks.myflodesk.com/silenceyourimposter

💫 Want ongoing support, accountability, and a safe space to heal and grow? Join The Healing Collective—a coaching community designed for women in midlife who are ready to rise together. https://dianaguintuspeaks.lpages.co/healingcollective/

👉 Grab your Power Station Blueprint and create a 10-day morning ritual to silence your inner critic, boost confidence, and power up your inner She-Hero. https://dianaguintuspeaks.lpages.co/dg-create-your-power-station/

🔥 Ready to go all in and stop playing small? Apply now for my 1:1 Mentorship—personalized support for women who are serious about creating real transformation. Limited spots available. https://dianaguintuspeaks.com/coaching

💕 Not quite ready but want to get to know me more? Come hang out with me on Instagram—I share daily encouragement, behind-the-scenes, and real-talk for midlife women just like you.https://www.instagram.com/dianag_speaks

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Do you struggle to set boundaries without feeling guilty or selfish? You’re not alone. Many women in midlife have spent years being the dependable one—the helper, the fixer, the peacekeeper—until one day, they realize they’re completely drained.

In this episode of Her Next Chapter, Diana Guintu dives into one of the most important yet misunderstood parts of personal growth: boundaries. Through the story of her client Sherry, who went from overwhelmed and resentful to grounded and at peace, Diana reveals how boundaries aren’t about creating conflict—they’re about creating clarity.

You’ll learn the three key principles that transformed Sherry’s life and discover Diana’s 3C Boundary Framework to help you communicate, commit, and create space for what truly matters. Because when you honor your own boundaries, you reclaim your peace, confidence, and power.

💡 Here’s what we’ll dive into today:

✨Boundaries are not about conflict—they’re about clarity.
✨Boundaries show others how to respect and support you.
✨Healthy boundaries protect your energy, time, and priorities.
✨Boundaries start with you: self-respect begins with self-honoring.
✨ Communicating your needs clearly helps you build stronger relationships.
✨ Every “no” creates space for a more aligned “yes.”
3C Boundary Framework:
1️⃣ Communicate – Express your boundaries clearly and kindly.
2️⃣ Commit – Uphold your boundaries to build self-trust.
3️⃣ Create Space – Remember, boundaries aren’t just about saying no to others—they’re about saying yes to yourself.

When women thrive, everyone around them benefits.

🌟 Want to connect with other midlife women who are ready to reinvent themselves? Join the Her Next Chapter Podcast Community today! https://www.facebook.com/groups/hernextchapterinmidlife

Want to stop doubting yourself and finally own your confidence? Grab my free guide 5 Secrets to Overcome Imposter Syndrome right here! https://dianaguintuspeaks.myflodesk.com/silenceyourimposter

💫 Want ongoing support, accountability, and a safe space to heal and grow? Join The Healing Collective—a coaching community designed for women in midlife who are ready to rise together. https://dianaguintuspeaks.lpages.co/healingcollective/

👉 Grab your Power Station Blueprint and create a 10-day morning ritual to silence your inner critic, boost confidence, and power up your inner She-Hero. https://dianaguintuspeaks.lpages.co/dg-create-your-power-station/

🔥 Ready to go all in and stop playing small? Apply now for my 1:1 Mentorship—personalized support for women who are serious about creating real transformation. Limited spots available. https://dianaguintuspeaks.com/coaching

💕 Not quite ready but want to get to know me more? Come hang out with me on Instagram—I share daily encouragement, behind-the-scenes, and real-talk for midlife women just like you.https://www.instagram.com/dianag_speaks

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