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You know that Stupid questions = Stupid answers. It's the same for boring questions. If you want to live a meaningful life with space for personal growth and connection with those around you.

The answer is fantastic questions.

Questions that help you understand yourself better and your partner.

Questions that lead to conversations where you really see each other deep down at a human to human level.

Topaz Azides, is an Emmy-winning director who spent a decade analyzing 1,200 couples to understand why some thrive while others stall. He discovered that humans are "answering machines"—we can't help but respond to the prompt in front of us. He crafted 12 questions that act like rocket fuel for connection, moving you from small talk to the conversations you're secretly desperate to have. This isn’t about cheesy one-liners; it's a practical framework for reframing your mindset:

  • Learn why our brains are hardwired to answer any question, and how to use this quirk for psychology-driven growth.
  • Discover how to use arguments to build psychological resilience and make your relationship stronger, not break it.
  • Embrace the idea that every moment is unique and discover how to treat it that way, fostering cognitive flexibility in your interactions.

Topaz Azides

Get the book: https://www.topazadizes.com/book

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00:00 Humans are obsessed with questions

03:18 What does a growth mindset mean

03:52 Architecting Experiences

04:03 Lessons from creating 12 questions

07:58 do people compete to say better answers

10:03 Finding new dimensions

11:36 The process of creating 12 questions for love

11:36 What is the and

11:36 How and why did they change specific question elements

15:24 Humans are answering machines

17:51 Other great question

20:09 The power of being articulate

22:17 the power of attention

24:14 Question loops

26:17 Chapters of life

27:56 Pre-interview questions

30:06 Dangers of quick fixes - should a relationship be allowed to end

35:30 Cultural or regional variations

38:18 Playing the 12 questions game

38:30 Daily practices or habits for sustaining a relationship

41:50 Showing to kids that communication is important

42:13 How to stay positive

47:01 Future projects

49:42 Reflections

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You know that Stupid questions = Stupid answers. It's the same for boring questions. If you want to live a meaningful life with space for personal growth and connection with those around you.

The answer is fantastic questions.

Questions that help you understand yourself better and your partner.

Questions that lead to conversations where you really see each other deep down at a human to human level.

Topaz Azides, is an Emmy-winning director who spent a decade analyzing 1,200 couples to understand why some thrive while others stall. He discovered that humans are "answering machines"—we can't help but respond to the prompt in front of us. He crafted 12 questions that act like rocket fuel for connection, moving you from small talk to the conversations you're secretly desperate to have. This isn’t about cheesy one-liners; it's a practical framework for reframing your mindset:

  • Learn why our brains are hardwired to answer any question, and how to use this quirk for psychology-driven growth.
  • Discover how to use arguments to build psychological resilience and make your relationship stronger, not break it.
  • Embrace the idea that every moment is unique and discover how to treat it that way, fostering cognitive flexibility in your interactions.

Topaz Azides

Get the book: https://www.topazadizes.com/book

NEW SHOW - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠How to Change the World: The History and Future of Innovation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Learn about the evolving story of the human species and our ideas told in chronological order. The podcast is full of fun facts, surprising stories and philosophical insights.

Found on all major podcast players:

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🤘 Support the show

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Growth Mindset Psychology:

Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Humans are obsessed with questions

03:18 What does a growth mindset mean

03:52 Architecting Experiences

04:03 Lessons from creating 12 questions

07:58 do people compete to say better answers

10:03 Finding new dimensions

11:36 The process of creating 12 questions for love

11:36 What is the and

11:36 How and why did they change specific question elements

15:24 Humans are answering machines

17:51 Other great question

20:09 The power of being articulate

22:17 the power of attention

24:14 Question loops

26:17 Chapters of life

27:56 Pre-interview questions

30:06 Dangers of quick fixes - should a relationship be allowed to end

35:30 Cultural or regional variations

38:18 Playing the 12 questions game

38:30 Daily practices or habits for sustaining a relationship

41:50 Showing to kids that communication is important

42:13 How to stay positive

47:01 Future projects

49:42 Reflections

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