Ep. 369 - Overcome the Fear of Being Seen - The Process with Alexandria

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What if your dream life was on the other side of the fear of being “cringe?”

In this expansive Process episode, Jessica sits down with TBM community member Alexandria to explore what it looks like to manifest from alignment when everything familiar falls away. From starting out as a fitness influencer to becoming a retreat host and conscious creator, Alexandria shares how she moved through the fear of being seen, reconnected with her inner child, and followed intuitive pings that led her to quit her job, heal old wounds, and sell out her first retreat—all without a perfect plan in place.

Together, they dive deep into the power of expanders, the role of vision holders, the energetics of desperation, and why honoring your nervous system is the key to your most aligned, magnetic life.

**Trigger warning: Discussion of alcoholism and parental loss at 19:07 through 23:54

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In This Episode We Talk About:

How Alexandria discovered TBM through a synchronistic podcast episode
The emotional toll of silencing her voice after leaving the fitness influencer world
The pivotal moment she received an intuitive ping to quit her job
The role of vision holders and the importance of expanders in transformation
Healing grief and self-worth wounds through inner child connection
Shifting from desperation to trust during career transitions
How to know when it's time to take a leap (even without a full safety net)
Why rest is a radical act of alignment in hyper-productive culture
How personal dreams and micro-manifestations fuel greater magnetism
Shedding external validation in favor of soul-aligned expression
The year of stripping away inauthenticity to reveal essence

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Expanded x Ep. 329 - How to Be Authentic in Every Room and Find Your Purpose
Expanded x Ep. 287 - You Can’t Rush Your Manifestations: The Energetics of Desperation
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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips

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The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.

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