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5 Signs You're Not Living In The Present

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In “5 Signs You’re Not Living in the Present,” I explore the everyday habits and thought patterns that keep so many of us stuck in autopilot constantly multitasking, fixated on regrets, or worrying about the future. If you feel like your days are passing in a blur or the happiest moments slip by unnoticed, this episode is for you.

I break down the five biggest indicators that you’re not living in the moment and, more importantly, how you can gently retrain your mind to come back to the present. With practical tips and mindfulness strategies, you’ll learn how to stop chronic multitasking, end rumination about the past, manage future worries, respond to emotions thoughtfully, and finally find a sense of peace right where you are.

If you’ve ever wondered why it’s so hard to be present in midlife or how presence could transform your relationships, confidence, and joy, this episode answers it all.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The neuroscience behind why multitasking and living on autopilot derails happiness and memory
  • Practical steps for accepting and reframing regrets from your past
  • Mindfulness and grounding techniques to interrupt chronic anxiety about the future
  • How high emotional reactivity signals disconnection from the now, and how to change it
  • Ways to find genuine enjoyment in the everyday, even after decades of busyness

Call To Action:

Are you ready to take back control of your focus and create a richer experience, moment by moment? Comment below with one small step you’ll commit to this week! Like, share, and subscribe to keep growing with a vibrant, supportive community.

📕 Resources:

https://createthebestme.com/ep127

Related Episodes:

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https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17204469

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/15395445

#5SignsYoureNotLivingInThePresent #MindfulLiving #Presence #CreateTheBestMe #MidlifeWomen #MentalWellness #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealth

📨 Newsletter:

https://createthebestme.com/newsletter/

👀 Connect With Me:

Website: https://createthebestme.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthebestme

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenhecox/

TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@carmenhecox
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@createthebestme

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-hecox

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Chapters

1. Introduction: Are You Living on Autopilot? (00:00:00)

2. Sign 1:  Constant Multitasking and Mindless Habits (00:01:46)

3. Sign 2:  Persistent Rumination on the Past (00:05:43)

4. Sign 3: Excessive Worry or Anxiety About the Future (00:09:19)

5. Sign 4: Emotional Reactivity and Impulsive Behaviors (00:12:33)

6. Sign 5: Difficulty Finding Peace or Enjoyment in the Present (00:15:56)

7. Conclusion: Steps to Reclaim Your Presence (00:19:41)

138 episodes

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In “5 Signs You’re Not Living in the Present,” I explore the everyday habits and thought patterns that keep so many of us stuck in autopilot constantly multitasking, fixated on regrets, or worrying about the future. If you feel like your days are passing in a blur or the happiest moments slip by unnoticed, this episode is for you.

I break down the five biggest indicators that you’re not living in the moment and, more importantly, how you can gently retrain your mind to come back to the present. With practical tips and mindfulness strategies, you’ll learn how to stop chronic multitasking, end rumination about the past, manage future worries, respond to emotions thoughtfully, and finally find a sense of peace right where you are.

If you’ve ever wondered why it’s so hard to be present in midlife or how presence could transform your relationships, confidence, and joy, this episode answers it all.

What You’ll Learn:

  • The neuroscience behind why multitasking and living on autopilot derails happiness and memory
  • Practical steps for accepting and reframing regrets from your past
  • Mindfulness and grounding techniques to interrupt chronic anxiety about the future
  • How high emotional reactivity signals disconnection from the now, and how to change it
  • Ways to find genuine enjoyment in the everyday, even after decades of busyness

Call To Action:

Are you ready to take back control of your focus and create a richer experience, moment by moment? Comment below with one small step you’ll commit to this week! Like, share, and subscribe to keep growing with a vibrant, supportive community.

📕 Resources:

https://createthebestme.com/ep127

Related Episodes:

🎧 Listen to these episodes:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17204469

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/15395445

#5SignsYoureNotLivingInThePresent #MindfulLiving #Presence #CreateTheBestMe #MidlifeWomen #MentalWellness #SelfAwareness #EmotionalHealth

📨 Newsletter:

https://createthebestme.com/newsletter/

👀 Connect With Me:

Website: https://createthebestme.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthebestme

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenhecox/

TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@carmenhecox
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@createthebestme

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-hecox

📽️ Video Request:

https://forms.office.com/r/LvLV1AsBfv

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Introduction: Are You Living on Autopilot? (00:00:00)

2. Sign 1:  Constant Multitasking and Mindless Habits (00:01:46)

3. Sign 2:  Persistent Rumination on the Past (00:05:43)

4. Sign 3: Excessive Worry or Anxiety About the Future (00:09:19)

5. Sign 4: Emotional Reactivity and Impulsive Behaviors (00:12:33)

6. Sign 5: Difficulty Finding Peace or Enjoyment in the Present (00:15:56)

7. Conclusion: Steps to Reclaim Your Presence (00:19:41)

138 episodes

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