Search a title or topic

Over 20 million podcasts, powered by 

Player FM logo
Artwork

Content provided by Allison K. Dagney. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Allison K. Dagney or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.
Player FM - Podcast App
Go offline with the Player FM app!

Episode 181: Mini Series 3: Why You Shouldn't Have Left Sooner

29:30
 
Share
 

Manage episode 507991905 series 3371936
Content provided by Allison K. Dagney. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Allison K. Dagney or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Send us a text

Do you beat yourself up with the thought, “I should’ve left sooner”? Survivors of emotional abuse often live with deep regret, believing they wasted years or failed themselves and their children by staying too long. But here’s the truth: you couldn’t have left any earlier—because your brain and nervous system were working to keep you alive.

In this episode of Be A Better You Podcast, host and subconscious reprogramming expert Allison K. Dagney explains the real science behind why leaving abuse is so hard. You’ll learn how survival responses like freeze and fawn keep you feeling stuck, how trauma bonding rewires the brain with powerful chemical loops of fear and relief, and why your nervous system literally made it feel impossible to leave before you did.

Through relatable examples and trauma-informed insights, Allison shows you how to reframe this painful belief and honor the strength it took to leave when you finally could. Instead of seeing wasted years, you’ll learn to see survival, resilience, and wisdom.

If you’ve ever searched: why didn’t I leave sooner, why I stayed in an abusive relationship, how to forgive myself for staying, why leaving abuse is so hard, or stuck in trauma bond, this episode will give you clarity and peace.

Support the show

To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com

Email: [email protected]
Free 30 Min Root Cause Call

Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community for Women
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook

https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/

*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)

  continue reading

189 episodes

Artwork
iconShare
 
Manage episode 507991905 series 3371936
Content provided by Allison K. Dagney. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Allison K. Dagney or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

Send us a text

Do you beat yourself up with the thought, “I should’ve left sooner”? Survivors of emotional abuse often live with deep regret, believing they wasted years or failed themselves and their children by staying too long. But here’s the truth: you couldn’t have left any earlier—because your brain and nervous system were working to keep you alive.

In this episode of Be A Better You Podcast, host and subconscious reprogramming expert Allison K. Dagney explains the real science behind why leaving abuse is so hard. You’ll learn how survival responses like freeze and fawn keep you feeling stuck, how trauma bonding rewires the brain with powerful chemical loops of fear and relief, and why your nervous system literally made it feel impossible to leave before you did.

Through relatable examples and trauma-informed insights, Allison shows you how to reframe this painful belief and honor the strength it took to leave when you finally could. Instead of seeing wasted years, you’ll learn to see survival, resilience, and wisdom.

If you’ve ever searched: why didn’t I leave sooner, why I stayed in an abusive relationship, how to forgive myself for staying, why leaving abuse is so hard, or stuck in trauma bond, this episode will give you clarity and peace.

Support the show

To learn more about my Programs visit the website
www.radiatenrise.com

Email: [email protected]
Free 30 Min Root Cause Call

Join Radiate and Rise Together - Survivor Healing Community for Women
To send a DM, visit Allison's profiles on
Instagram and Facebook

https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/
https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/

*Formerly (The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast)

  continue reading

189 episodes

All episodes

×
 
Loading …

Welcome to Player FM!

Player FM is scanning the web for high-quality podcasts for you to enjoy right now. It's the best podcast app and works on Android, iPhone, and the web. Signup to sync subscriptions across devices.

 

Copyright 2025 | Privacy Policy | Terms of Service | | Copyright
Listen to this show while you explore
Play