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No Contact Isn’t Trendy: The Truth About How Hard Cycle Breakers Fight for Toxic Parent Relationships
Manage episode 505311155 series 3589271
In this episode, therapist and boundaries coach Torie Wiksell (and fellow cycle breaker) exposes the myth of “no contact as a fad” and validates the years—sometimes decades—of exhausting effort cycle breakers pour into maintaining relationships with narcissistic or emotionally immature parents before making the heartbreaking decision to step back.
We’ll cover:
- Why going no contact with a toxic parent is never taken lightly
- The hidden grief and guilt cycle breakers face when boundaries still aren’t respected
- How narcissistic parents weaponize the “estranged parent” narrative
- What it really takes to break the cycle of dysfunction without losing yourself
If you’ve ever questioned whether you’ve “tried hard enough” with your toxic parent, this episode will give you the validation and relief you need.
Next steps for support:
- Download the free Confident Boundaries App for tools, resources, and access to the newest episodes of the podcast.
- Join the Confident Boundaries Membership to get live workshops, group coaching, our private chat, and 24/7 access to the Boundaries Helper GPT. This month’s workshop is “Unspoken Grief: Mourning the Parent You Never Had.”
You don’t have to navigate this cycle-breaking journey alone.
A huge thank you to our podcast sponsors!
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Let's be friends:
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Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you’re in crisis, please call the 988 Crisis Lifeline.
You're Not Crazy is owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and Confident Boundaries, LLC.
Chapters
1. Welcome to You're Not Crazy (00:00:00)
2. Updates and September Workshop Preview (00:00:26)
3. The Hard Work of Maintaining Toxic Relationships (00:03:10)
4. Debunking No Contact Myths (00:05:27)
5. Choosing Yourself Isn't Selfish (00:07:49)
6. Support Resources and Closing (00:13:54)
41 episodes
No Contact Isn’t Trendy: The Truth About How Hard Cycle Breakers Fight for Toxic Parent Relationships
You're Not Crazy: A Podcast for Cycle Breakers with Toxic Parents
Manage episode 505311155 series 3589271
In this episode, therapist and boundaries coach Torie Wiksell (and fellow cycle breaker) exposes the myth of “no contact as a fad” and validates the years—sometimes decades—of exhausting effort cycle breakers pour into maintaining relationships with narcissistic or emotionally immature parents before making the heartbreaking decision to step back.
We’ll cover:
- Why going no contact with a toxic parent is never taken lightly
- The hidden grief and guilt cycle breakers face when boundaries still aren’t respected
- How narcissistic parents weaponize the “estranged parent” narrative
- What it really takes to break the cycle of dysfunction without losing yourself
If you’ve ever questioned whether you’ve “tried hard enough” with your toxic parent, this episode will give you the validation and relief you need.
Next steps for support:
- Download the free Confident Boundaries App for tools, resources, and access to the newest episodes of the podcast.
- Join the Confident Boundaries Membership to get live workshops, group coaching, our private chat, and 24/7 access to the Boundaries Helper GPT. This month’s workshop is “Unspoken Grief: Mourning the Parent You Never Had.”
You don’t have to navigate this cycle-breaking journey alone.
A huge thank you to our podcast sponsors!
🎧 Ready for More?
➔Subscribe to You're Not Crazy: The Private Feed for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and archived episodes no longer available in the public feed: confidentboundaries.com/private
➔Join me in the Confident Boundaries Membership ($39/month and the first 24 hours are free!)
📱 Download the Confident Boundaries App
iOS and Android
Let's be friends:
tiktok.com/@theboundariescoach
instagram.com/torieatconfidentboundaries
Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy. If you’re in crisis, please call the 988 Crisis Lifeline.
You're Not Crazy is owned and produced by Torie Wiksell and Confident Boundaries, LLC.
Chapters
1. Welcome to You're Not Crazy (00:00:00)
2. Updates and September Workshop Preview (00:00:26)
3. The Hard Work of Maintaining Toxic Relationships (00:03:10)
4. Debunking No Contact Myths (00:05:27)
5. Choosing Yourself Isn't Selfish (00:07:49)
6. Support Resources and Closing (00:13:54)
41 episodes
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