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If you've ever caught yourself staring in the mirror, wondering when you started looking so exhausted, or scrolling through old photos of the woman you used to be—the one with dreams and direction—this episode is for you.

You've been told that good mothers sacrifice everything. So you did. And now you feel lost, confused, and as though you've somehow failed because you no longer know who you are.

But what if your confusion isn't evidence of failure? What if it's evidence of readiness?

In this episode, I'm challenging one of the most damaging beliefs keeping women stuck: that feeling lost about your identity means something is wrong with you. I'll share why you're not actually lost—you're buried. And there's a massive difference.

You'll discover:

• Why the "lost" feeling is actually a feature, not a bug in your system
• The radical reframe that changes everything (you're not lost, you're buried)
• 4 specific shifts to move from buried to breakthrough
• What research says about women and identity in midlife (hint: you're not alone)
• How your confusion is actually directing you back to YOU

Plus, I'm sharing my own story of the night I cried myself to sleep grieving a woman I thought I'd lost—and what I discovered she'd been doing all along.

The woman you're looking for isn't gone. She's been patient, waiting for you to remember she was never supposed to fit into the small boxes others created for her.

Your confusion isn't a problem to solve. It's an invitation to discover.

THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF:

✓ You can't remember the last time someone asked "What do YOU want?" and you had an answer

✓ You've googled "Why do I feel empty when I should be grateful?"

✓ You love your family but feel like you've disappeared

✓ You watch other women who seem to have it together and wonder what's wrong with you

✓ You've believed that feeling confused means you've failed somehow

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Research on midlife transitions (10-20% clinical crisis vs. universal discontent)
• Massachusetts General Hospital Center for Women's Mental Health study
• The 4-step process for moving from buried to breakthrough

FINAL THOUGHT:

You are not lost. You are not broken. You are becoming fully you.

And the world needs the woman you're becoming more than it needs the woman you think you should be.

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