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In this episode of Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist's Ex and Me, Brenda and Sara explore the neuroscience of narcissism, exploring how the brain's wiring affects empathy and emotional connection. They discuss the differences between feeling and thinking empathy, the implications for survivors of narcissistic abuse, and the potential for healing through understanding and therapy. The conversation emphasizes that while narcissists may have a different brain structure, it does not absolve them of responsibility for their actions. The episode aims to empower survivors by reinforcing that their experiences are valid and not a reflection of their worth.

Takeaways
Narcissists have a different brain wiring that affects empathy.
Feeling empathy is often broken in narcissists.
Narcissism can be on a spectrum, similar to sociopathy.
The brain's self-focus circuits are overly activated in narcissists.
Narcissists can understand empathy but often use it manipulatively.
Neuroplasticity allows for potential change, but requires effort.
Survivors should not blame themselves for the narcissist's behavior.
Therapy can help survivors but may not change the narcissist.
Empathy can show up for narcissists when it serves them.
Understanding the brain's role can aid in healing from abuse.
Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.

Narcissistic abuse leaves deep imprints on trust, relationships, and identity. Survivors often feel isolated, anxious, and hypervigilant. But healing is possible. By rebuilding self-trust, noticing patterns, and taking small, steady steps toward connection, survivors can slowly allow safe people back into their lives.
The scars remain, but they don’t define the future. Survivors are not broken, they are rebuilding.
We specialize in helping survivors untangle the patterns of narcissistic abuse and recover their sense of self. Learn more at www.narctrauma.com.
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