The Consent Compass: Navigating Parenting Beyond "Because I Said So"
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What happens when we throw away the parenting rulebook and embrace our authentic, imperfect selves? In this fascinating conversation with Jen Wilson (aka Irregular Jen), we explore the radical idea that perfect parenting is not only impossible—it's not even desirable.
Jen, founder of the International Day of Consent and self-described "rebel with a cause," challenges conventional parenting wisdom with refreshing honesty. "Anyone who claims they're the perfect anything can get lost," they declare early in our discussion, setting the stage for a liberating conversation about parenting beyond rigid authority.
We discuss consent. Far from the limited understanding of consent as merely sexual permission, Jen reveals how consent touches every aspect of family life, from what we eat to how we communicate boundaries.
It's a must listen for parents feeling trapped in cycles of perfectionism or overwhelmed by societal expectations; this episode offers permission to embrace your wonderfully irregular self. After all, what better gift could we give our children than modelling authentic, imperfect humanity?
You can find Jenn on social media;
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IrregularJennPage
Instagram; https://www.instagram.com/irregularjenn/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@irregularjenn
Jenn also has a new membership launching 'The Irregular Membership', you can find more information here: https://bemore.irregular.org.uk/membership
I'm Liz, The Untypical OT. I work with parents and carers in additional needs and neurodivergent families to support them with burnout, mental health and well-being. When parents are supported, everyone benefits.
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Chapters
1. Welcome to Untypical Parent Talks (00:00:00)
2. Meet Jen Wilson: The Irregular Way (00:01:59)
3. Perfect Parents Don't Exist (00:03:51)
4. Neurodivergence and Alternative Education (00:09:01)
5. Understanding Consent Beyond Sex (00:15:32)
6. The Consent Compass Explained (00:21:45)
7. Parenting with Agency and Accountability (00:28:57)
8. Calling In vs. Calling Out (00:38:31)
9. The Power of Apology and Honesty (00:45:58)
10. Embracing Your Irregular Self (00:52:13)
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