Do you feel rejected when your wife pulls away from sex? Do you feel unwanted, not enough, or ashamed when intimacy is missing? You’re not alone—but this pain goes deeper than the bedroom.

In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott explains why so many men use sex as a scorecard for their value—and how to break free from that cycle. This is about healing your self-worth, not blaming your wife. You’ll learn how to stop chasing validation through sex and start leading your marriage from a place of strength, truth, and spiritual identity.

Here’s what you’ll learn:
✔️ Why sex often feels like proof that you matter
✔️ How childhood rejection leads to performance-based love
✔️ What really gets triggered when your wife says no
✔️ How to connect to your spiritual core for real identity
✔️ How to heal the little boy inside who feels unworthy
✔️ How to challenge the lies about what makes you lovable
✔️ Why true intimacy comes from fullness, not need

You’re not broken for wanting sex—but your worth doesn’t depend on it. You can stop reacting, stop begging, and stop feeling small. You can lead yourself. You can feel whole. And yes—your marriage can change.

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