Masculinity and other male failures with Adam Farrer

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Welcome to episode 216 with Adam Farrer, who is a writer, lecturer, mentor and editor.

Adam’s recent book Broken Biscuits and Other Male Failures is all about his struggles to live up to masculine expectations and in this episode, we chat about what it means to be a man and what it’s like to fall short of those ideals.

We chat about Adam’s route to becoming a writer, dealing with rejection along the way and following a creative path just for the love of it.

We chat about why he decided to write a book about his failures, the importance of healing emotional wounds, self-acceptance and the relief that comes from engaging with who you really are.

And we talk about Adams’ experiences with suicidal thoughts and how losing his brother to suicide forced him to get his own mental health in check and we chat about grief and feelings and loads of other things that men are often told they can’t talk about.

I absolutely loved Adam’s book. It’s funny and it’s emotional and I saw so many of my own regrets, failures and cringe worthy moments in his stories.

Vulnerability is something we talk about a lot in the mental health conversation and I think it’s in these everyday failures and mistakes and awkward moments where real vulnerability lies.

It’s these messy parts of being a human, that when shared, are where we can really connect and feel seen and ultimately make some sort of peace with, that allows us to move on and grow and do things differently.

That’s the sort of opening up and being vulnerable that really makes a difference and it was a joy to read the book and to chat to Adam about all of it.

More about Adam’s work here: www.adamfarrer.co.uk and @adamjfarrer

Broken Biscuits and Other Male Failures is available now Broken Biscuits: And other male failures by Adam Farrer – HarperCollins Publishers UK

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