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Your How-To for Breaking the Rules That Break You
Manage episode 520425707 series 3267511
Most high achievers are exhausted—and it’s not because they’re weak.
It’s because they’re obeying rules they never agreed to.
In this episode, Allyson Chavez reveals the silent rules that shape your pace, pressure, peace, and identity—often without you realizing it. These inherited expectations feel responsible or holy… but they’re actually survival strategies dressed as obedience.
You’ll learn the top four hidden rules: driving burnout, how to tell if a rule is not from God, and a powerful 30-second practice to return to peace and reconnect with divine direction.
If life feels heavy even though you’re doing everything “right,” this conversation will show you why—and what you can do today to lighten the load.
DM Allyson the word PEACE for a free next step.
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Key Takeaways:
00:00 — What silent rules are
05:47 — Silent Rule #1: “If I don’t hold everything together…”
11:12 — Silent Rule #2: “Peace comes after the to-do list.”
15:43 — Silent Rule #3: Self-pressure & self-judgment (“murdering yourself” line)
17:05 — Silent Rule #4: “My success is measured by what I can endure.”
20:48 — How to return to peace
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Additional Resources:
Learn more about Allyson’s work:
Website: https://allysonchavez.com/
Reach out to me on social media:
🔹 Instagram: / allysonchavez_
🔹 Facebook: / allyson.a.chavez
🔹 LinkedIn: / allysonchavez15
🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast
✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
#SilentRules #FaithAndLeadership #ChristianMindset #StopTheHustle #PeaceFromGod #ChristianPodcast #WomenInLeadership #LeadershipBurnout #EmotionalHealingJourney #HealingWithGod #HolySpiritLed #ObedientRebelPodcast
205 episodes
Manage episode 520425707 series 3267511
Most high achievers are exhausted—and it’s not because they’re weak.
It’s because they’re obeying rules they never agreed to.
In this episode, Allyson Chavez reveals the silent rules that shape your pace, pressure, peace, and identity—often without you realizing it. These inherited expectations feel responsible or holy… but they’re actually survival strategies dressed as obedience.
You’ll learn the top four hidden rules: driving burnout, how to tell if a rule is not from God, and a powerful 30-second practice to return to peace and reconnect with divine direction.
If life feels heavy even though you’re doing everything “right,” this conversation will show you why—and what you can do today to lighten the load.
DM Allyson the word PEACE for a free next step.
__
Key Takeaways:
00:00 — What silent rules are
05:47 — Silent Rule #1: “If I don’t hold everything together…”
11:12 — Silent Rule #2: “Peace comes after the to-do list.”
15:43 — Silent Rule #3: Self-pressure & self-judgment (“murdering yourself” line)
17:05 — Silent Rule #4: “My success is measured by what I can endure.”
20:48 — How to return to peace
__
Additional Resources:
Learn more about Allyson’s work:
Website: https://allysonchavez.com/
Reach out to me on social media:
🔹 Instagram: / allysonchavez_
🔹 Facebook: / allyson.a.chavez
🔹 LinkedIn: / allysonchavez15
🎧 Follow the podcast on your favorite app, so you never miss an episode: https://link.chtbl.com/tpapodcast
✨ I’d be so grateful and honored if you took the time to leave a rating and review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
#SilentRules #FaithAndLeadership #ChristianMindset #StopTheHustle #PeaceFromGod #ChristianPodcast #WomenInLeadership #LeadershipBurnout #EmotionalHealingJourney #HealingWithGod #HolySpiritLed #ObedientRebelPodcast
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