You Date the Parent Who Hurt You (and Here’s How to Break the Pattern)
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If you’ve ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship — the chaos, the pain, the highs and lows that leave you wrecked — this episode will hit you in your bones.
Here’s the truth:
You don’t attract narcissists because you’re broken.
You attract them because your nervous system was trained to find pain familiar and call it love.
In this raw, no-bullshit episode, we go deep into:
- Why your inner child is still the one choosing your partners
- How your trauma created an internal “love map” that keeps pulling you toward danger
- The brutal truth about childhood imprinting and how it shows up in your adult relationships
- Why “knowing better” isn’t enough — and what to do when your body keeps running back
- The exact steps to rewire the pattern, reparent your inner child, and take the wheel back
- How breaking this pattern makes you the narcissist’s worst nightmare — calm, embodied, and unf*ckwithable
This is a call to the woman who’s done betraying herself to feel chosen.
It’s time to make peace feel like home.
It’s time to love yourself louder than the trauma ever did.
Let’s break the pattern — for good.
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The original template is trauma. The relationships you witnessed. The relationships you witnessed. The relationships you witnessed. The patterns you repeated.
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