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#167 - When Perimenopause Unmasks ADHD with Dr. Jen Wolkin
Manage episode 514680202 series 2993078
Midlife brain fog and overwhelm aren’t signs of falling apart. It’s really just your biology getting louder. Dr. Jen Wolkin, a Harvard-trained neuropsychologist, explains how perimenopause can reveal ADHD that’s been there all along and why compassion, not willpower, brings clarity.
We unpack how estrogen shifts dopamine and norepinephrine, why hormone swings magnify time blindness and emotional reactivity, and how perfectionism and people-pleasing crumble under midlife’s mental load.
You’ll walk away with simple tools for clearer focus and steadier mood, including protein-forward meals, grazing stations to beat decision fatigue, and scripts for asking for help. This episode is science, validation, and relief all in one.
Connect with Dr. Jen
Instagram: @adhd_with_drjen, @drjenwolkin
Like what you learned? Check out these other episodes!
- Story Session: Navigating ADHD in Midlife & Menopause
- Finding Your Movement Rhythm with ADHD & Perimenopause with Christine Chessman
What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
➡️ Click here to save 50% off the The Midlife Feast Community in October (exp 31/10)
Or use the code OCTOBER50 at https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunity
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause will be out on October 21st, 2025. Pre-order your copy today and help get the word out!
Looking for more about midlife, menopause nutrition, and intuitive eating? Click here to grab one of my free guides and learn what I've got "on the menu" including my 1:1 and group programs. https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/links
Chapters
1. Welcome And Midlife Mission (00:00:00)
2. Why ADHD Feels Louder In Midlife (00:01:33)
3. Guest Intro: Dr. Jen Wolken (00:04:08)
4. No Such Thing As Adult-Onset ADHD (00:05:26)
5. History, Hidden Coping, And Hormones (00:07:12)
6. Masks Collapse Under Midlife Load (00:09:45)
7. Estrogen, Dopamine, And Fluctuations (00:12:50)
8. Lifespan Shifts: Puberty To Postpartum (00:17:02)
9. Mental Load And Default Parent Dynamics (00:20:17)
10. Perfectionism As A Mask (00:23:19)
11. Lowering The Bar With Food (00:26:32)
12. ADHD, Reward Systems, And Eating (00:29:07)
13. Primal Hunger And Interoception (00:32:42)
14. Practical Lunches And Grazing Stations (00:36:09)
15. Name It, Normalize It, Seek Support (00:39:12)
16. Compassion As A Cognitive Tool (00:42:02)
17. Radical Acceptance In Midlife (00:45:07)
18. Where To Find Dr. Jen And Closing (00:47:27)
168 episodes
Manage episode 514680202 series 2993078
Midlife brain fog and overwhelm aren’t signs of falling apart. It’s really just your biology getting louder. Dr. Jen Wolkin, a Harvard-trained neuropsychologist, explains how perimenopause can reveal ADHD that’s been there all along and why compassion, not willpower, brings clarity.
We unpack how estrogen shifts dopamine and norepinephrine, why hormone swings magnify time blindness and emotional reactivity, and how perfectionism and people-pleasing crumble under midlife’s mental load.
You’ll walk away with simple tools for clearer focus and steadier mood, including protein-forward meals, grazing stations to beat decision fatigue, and scripts for asking for help. This episode is science, validation, and relief all in one.
Connect with Dr. Jen
Instagram: @adhd_with_drjen, @drjenwolkin
Like what you learned? Check out these other episodes!
- Story Session: Navigating ADHD in Midlife & Menopause
- Finding Your Movement Rhythm with ADHD & Perimenopause with Christine Chessman
What did you think of this episode? Click here and let me know!
➡️ Click here to save 50% off the The Midlife Feast Community in October (exp 31/10)
Or use the code OCTOBER50 at https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/themidlifefeastcommunity
📚 I wrote a book! Eat To Thrive During Menopause will be out on October 21st, 2025. Pre-order your copy today and help get the word out!
Looking for more about midlife, menopause nutrition, and intuitive eating? Click here to grab one of my free guides and learn what I've got "on the menu" including my 1:1 and group programs. https://www.menopausenutritionist.ca/links
Chapters
1. Welcome And Midlife Mission (00:00:00)
2. Why ADHD Feels Louder In Midlife (00:01:33)
3. Guest Intro: Dr. Jen Wolken (00:04:08)
4. No Such Thing As Adult-Onset ADHD (00:05:26)
5. History, Hidden Coping, And Hormones (00:07:12)
6. Masks Collapse Under Midlife Load (00:09:45)
7. Estrogen, Dopamine, And Fluctuations (00:12:50)
8. Lifespan Shifts: Puberty To Postpartum (00:17:02)
9. Mental Load And Default Parent Dynamics (00:20:17)
10. Perfectionism As A Mask (00:23:19)
11. Lowering The Bar With Food (00:26:32)
12. ADHD, Reward Systems, And Eating (00:29:07)
13. Primal Hunger And Interoception (00:32:42)
14. Practical Lunches And Grazing Stations (00:36:09)
15. Name It, Normalize It, Seek Support (00:39:12)
16. Compassion As A Cognitive Tool (00:42:02)
17. Radical Acceptance In Midlife (00:45:07)
18. Where To Find Dr. Jen And Closing (00:47:27)
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