Ever wonder how the way we talk to boys shapes the men they become? Early messages about masculinity can have a lasting impact on mental health and emotional wellbeing.

In this episode of The Meaning of Men, I speak to Dr Judy Chu about boys’ emotional development, men’s mental health, and parenting strategies. Dr Chu explains how societal pressures, like being told to “man up,” can contribute to depression in men, and why cultivating emotional awareness from a young age is crucial.

In this episode you will learn:

• How early messages about masculinity affect boys’ emotional development and long-term mental health

• The signs of male depression in boys and men, including emotional withdrawal, acting out, and shutting down

• Practical strategies for parents, teachers, and caregivers to support boys in expressing feelings

• How to break free from the “man box” and encourage vulnerability, self-acceptance, and emotional resilience

• The importance of early interventions for mental health awareness and healthy masculinity

This conversation is essential for anyone interested in men’s mental health, boys’ development, parenting, emotional wellbeing, and resilience, offering practical insights for raising emotionally healthy, confident boys.

1.38: Introductions

13.38: Raising emotionally aware boys

15.58: The impact of the language we use with boys

21.11: Creating safe spaces for boys to thrive

26.27: Early warning signs of struggles with boys

39.33: Unlearning harmful masculinity

44.42: How partners and friends can create safe spaces for men to talk

Resources from Dr Judy:

When Boys Become Boys

Website: https://judyychu.wordpress.com