Healing From Narcissistic Abuse
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What happens when a survivor’s raw honesty meets a therapist’s wide-angle lens? We trace a gripping arc from love bombing and gaslighting to clarity, boundaries, and creative rebirth—and we do it with both heart and rigor. Grace Being shares the lived reality of narcissistic abuse: the “haze” that settles in, the cognitive dissonance that makes you doubt your own memory, and the painful moment empathy is nowhere to be found. Claudia Cauterucci brings the clinical scaffolding—what truly separates narcissistic traits from narcissistic personality disorder, why love bombing can even snare therapists, and how abandonment wounds and triangulation keep you hooked.
Together, we unpack the predictable “script” of NPD: supply, projection, superior–inferior dynamics, and the slow erosion of self that leaves you sleepwalking through life. We talk science without losing soul—like MRI research on empathy deficits—and then translate it into practical cues you can use right away: how to spot the haze, why your gut whispers matter, and how mindfulness turns down the noise so you can hear yourself again. If you’ve ever asked “Why didn’t you leave?” you’ll hear real answers: trauma bonds, parentification, and the seductive mirage that confuses volatility for love.
And then comes the turn: healing as renaissance. Grace describes losing her singing voice during the relationship—and the thrill of hearing its power return. That creative renewal becomes a recovery metric you can feel. We offer a simple, humane framework for no contact, self-validation, and closure that doesn’t depend on your abuser changing. Along the way, we share how our cross-Atlantic partnership formed and why our book blends story, science, and actionable exercises designed to help you rebuild and find your light again.
Preorder “Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Rebuild from Relationship Trauma and Find Your Light Again” by Grace Being and Claudia Cauterucci, then hit play and join us. If this conversation resonates, subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help others find their way back to themselves.
Chapters
1. Welcome, Book Reveal, Synchronicity (00:00:00)
2. Grace’s Story: Why The Book Began (00:02:15)
3. Finding a Coauthor and Manuscript Merge (00:06:30)
4. NPD vs Traits: Real Definitions (00:10:40)
5. Therapy, Love Bombing, And Power Dynamics (00:14:10)
6. Lack Of Empathy: Science And Story (00:18:05)
7. Why People Stay: Trauma Bonds (00:22:00)
8. Supply, Abandonment, And Triangulation (00:26:05)
9. The Haze: Gaslighting And Brain Fog (00:30:10)
10. Mindfulness, Inner Signals, And Safety (00:35:20)
11. Healing Arc: Boundaries And No Contact (00:40:10)
12. Renaissance: Singing, Power, And Rebirth (00:44:20)
13. Hope, Preorder Details, Audience Q&A (00:50:00)
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