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The Secret to Leading Without Losing Yourself

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If you’ve ever thought “What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I just handle this like everyone else?”... this one’s for you.

Because nothing’s wrong with you.

You’re not “too emotional.” You’re not lazy for wanting more freedom in your schedule. And you’re definitely not broken because hustle culture makes you want to burn it all down.

This week on The Cycle Advantage Podcast, I sat down with Jessica Steele, a former high school principal who walked away from a picture-perfect career to become a leadership and energetic alignment coach.

We went all in on the conversations most people avoid…the ones about humanity, emotional intelligence, and what it really takes to lead without losing yourself.

Why This Conversation Matters

We live in a world that celebrates doing over being, reacting over pausing, and “leaving your feelings at the door” like that’s a badge of honor.

But suppressing your emotions doesn’t make you stronger; it disconnects you from yourself. And when you’re disconnected from yourself, it’s impossible to lead with clarity, empathy, or confidence.

Jess and I talked about what happens when you finally stop trying to fit into a life you never consciously chose… and start creating one that actually works for you.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

How Jess climbed the career ladder without ever stopping to ask if it was her ladder to climb
The turning point moment that made her question everything she thought she wanted
The cost of living by society’s script (and why so many women don’t realize they’re doing it)
The difference between reacting to a trigger and carrying someone else’s energy
A simple question that can diffuse almost any emotional outburst
Why pausing before reacting will change your relationships at home and at work
The role of meditation, stillness, and nervous system regulation in leadership
How to raise kids who see differences as normal and humanity as non-negotiable

3 Key Takeaways You Can Use Today

1. Your emotions are data, not flaws. Anger, fear, sadness… they’re all information. When you learn to sit with them instead of suppressing them, you stop making decisions from a triggered place.

2. Ask yourself: “What’s true for me right now?” That tiny pause between feeling and reacting can be the difference between a fight and a productive conversation.

3. Lead yourself first. You can’t offer empathy, clarity, or grounded leadership to others if you haven’t practiced it with yourself.

Why It Matters

If you’ve been living on autopilot, following rules that were never meant for you, and measuring success by someone else’s yardstick, you will burn out.

Not because you’re weak, but because you’re human.

And humans need connection, stillness, and space to breathe. When you reclaim your humanity and lead from that place, you don’t just create better results… you create a better life.

This Episode Is For You If…

You’re tired of white-knuckling your way through work and life
You want to respond thoughtfully instead of reacting instantly
You’ve been told emotions don’t belong in leadership (and you’re ready to call BS)
You’re craving inner alignment before another strategy, hack, or to-do list item
You want to model emotional intelligence and empathy for the next generation

Meet Jessica

Jessica Steele is a leadership and energetic alignment coach who’s spent nearly two decades transforming lives through purpose-driven leadership. With a background in psychology, secondary education, and instructional design, she’s served as a high school principal and held various leadership roles, all while staying rooted in her mission to empower others.

Her journey hasn’t been linear—it’s been guided by intuition, soulful pivots, and a deep trust in her inner knowing. From one-on-one and small group coaching sessions to large-scale PD for schools and organizations and launching the Dear Jess app and The Empowered Educator Series, Jess continues to merge strategy with soul to elevate leaders from the inside out.

A published author, passionate creative, and devoted student of energy, Jess brings empathy, alignment, and authenticity into every space she enters. Whether she’s coaching, hiking in nature, or creating tools for conscious leadership, she leads with love—and lives with intention.

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