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The Power of BOUNDARIES & Why they are EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE #265
Manage episode 477428240 series 2795604
đĽ Why Setting Boundaries Boosts Confidence & Masculine Magnetism
đĽ Join our FREE menâs development community here:
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đŻ Apply for the Magnetism Challenge or take the quiz here:
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If you constantly feel drained, rejected, or like youâre giving more than youâre receiving chances are, your boundaries are weak.
In this episode, I dive deep into how poor boundaries kill your confidence, wreck your nervous system, and block your masculine magnetism in relationships, leadership, and business.
Youâll learn:
â˘Why people-pleasers burn out and lose respect
â˘How trauma and childhood conditioning shape your boundaries
â˘The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations (fight, flight, freeze, appease)
â˘How low HRV (heart rate variability) is linked to stress, shame, and weak emotional boundaries
â˘How to rewire your brain and build emotional regulation through healthy masculine boundaries
â˘What to say when someone crosses your line without guilt
đ Timestamps:
00:00 â Why boundaries are the foundation of magnetism
01:20 â Where weak boundaries come from (childhood trauma & shame)
05:44 â The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations
07:00 â How emotional wounds show up in your business, relationships & body
10:15 â Real-world examples of boundary issues in dating and leadership
17:32 â Why poor boundaries lower your HRV and increase stress
21:00 â The 4 domains of boundaries: mental, emotional, physical, spiritual
22:30 â My simple 3-step method to respond to boundary triggers
25:20 â How I rewired my reactions and stopped people-pleasing
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đĽ Join our FREE menâs development community here:
https://www.skool.com/setthestandard/about
đŻ Apply for the Magnetism Challenge or take the quiz here:
https://8eltyrvzums.typeform.com/to/n777WygR
⸝
If you want to develop unshakable self-worth, attract higher-quality relationships, and build true confidence as a man, it starts with one thing: Boundaries.
đĽ This is the work we do inside Set The Standard: the #1 menâs community to build masculine presence, emotional strength, and magnetic leadership.
Big love
Corey
Apply here https://www.coreyboutwell.net/speaksoon
Join Our Community: https://www.skool.com/setthestandard/about
FREE Mindset Webinar: https://www.coreyboutwell.com/dydp
Make sure you listen to the podcasts all the way through to get your discount code.
Chapters
1. The Power of BOUNDARIES & Why they are EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE #265 (00:00:00)
2. Why Boundaries Matter (00:01:40)
3. Childhood Origins of Boundary Issues (00:04:29)
4. Four Nervous System Responses (00:07:35)
5. Types of Boundary Violations (00:10:56)
6. Impact of Boundaries on Health (00:16:37)
7. Four Domains of Boundaries (00:23:31)
8. Process for Implementing Boundaries (00:25:30)
9. Final Reflections and Next Steps (00:30:15)
290 episodes
Manage episode 477428240 series 2795604
đĽ Why Setting Boundaries Boosts Confidence & Masculine Magnetism
đĽ Join our FREE menâs development community here:
https://www.skool.com/setthestandard/about
đŻ Apply for the Magnetism Challenge or take the quiz here:
https://8eltyrvzums.typeform.com/to/n777WygR
If you constantly feel drained, rejected, or like youâre giving more than youâre receiving chances are, your boundaries are weak.
In this episode, I dive deep into how poor boundaries kill your confidence, wreck your nervous system, and block your masculine magnetism in relationships, leadership, and business.
Youâll learn:
â˘Why people-pleasers burn out and lose respect
â˘How trauma and childhood conditioning shape your boundaries
â˘The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations (fight, flight, freeze, appease)
â˘How low HRV (heart rate variability) is linked to stress, shame, and weak emotional boundaries
â˘How to rewire your brain and build emotional regulation through healthy masculine boundaries
â˘What to say when someone crosses your line without guilt
đ Timestamps:
00:00 â Why boundaries are the foundation of magnetism
01:20 â Where weak boundaries come from (childhood trauma & shame)
05:44 â The 4 nervous system responses to boundary violations
07:00 â How emotional wounds show up in your business, relationships & body
10:15 â Real-world examples of boundary issues in dating and leadership
17:32 â Why poor boundaries lower your HRV and increase stress
21:00 â The 4 domains of boundaries: mental, emotional, physical, spiritual
22:30 â My simple 3-step method to respond to boundary triggers
25:20 â How I rewired my reactions and stopped people-pleasing
⸝
đĽ Join our FREE menâs development community here:
https://www.skool.com/setthestandard/about
đŻ Apply for the Magnetism Challenge or take the quiz here:
https://8eltyrvzums.typeform.com/to/n777WygR
⸝
If you want to develop unshakable self-worth, attract higher-quality relationships, and build true confidence as a man, it starts with one thing: Boundaries.
đĽ This is the work we do inside Set The Standard: the #1 menâs community to build masculine presence, emotional strength, and magnetic leadership.
Big love
Corey
Apply here https://www.coreyboutwell.net/speaksoon
Join Our Community: https://www.skool.com/setthestandard/about
FREE Mindset Webinar: https://www.coreyboutwell.com/dydp
Make sure you listen to the podcasts all the way through to get your discount code.
Chapters
1. The Power of BOUNDARIES & Why they are EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE #265 (00:00:00)
2. Why Boundaries Matter (00:01:40)
3. Childhood Origins of Boundary Issues (00:04:29)
4. Four Nervous System Responses (00:07:35)
5. Types of Boundary Violations (00:10:56)
6. Impact of Boundaries on Health (00:16:37)
7. Four Domains of Boundaries (00:23:31)
8. Process for Implementing Boundaries (00:25:30)
9. Final Reflections and Next Steps (00:30:15)
290 episodes
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