Stop Being Walked Over & Implement These Boundaries #267

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Ever felt like people don’t respect you?
Like you’re saying the right things but nobody listens?
This video is the missing link the implementation piece. If you’ve ever struggled to speak up, get your needs met, or hold the frame in business, dating, or leadership… it’s probably because your boundaries are weak or unspoken.
This is how to fix that step by step.
In this one, I break down:
• The 3 stages of boundaries (unknown, fighting for them, and maintaining them)
• How to actually enforce boundaries with consequences that get respect
• Why your nice guy habits are repelling power, women, and leadership
• How to use non-verbal cues to protect your energy without needing to overexplain
• A simple model to reprogram your nervous system so you stop freezing or people-pleasing when boundaries get crossed
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📍 Timestamps:
00:00 – Why they’re not listening to you (it’s not what you think)
03:59 – Stage 1: Unknown boundaries (most men are here)
05:21 – How to communicate boundaries with confidence
06:57 – What to do when people push back
07:48 – The 4-step enforcement model (acknowledge, communicate, enforce, exit)
09:01 – Why magnetic men have clear poles (polarisation model)
11:05 – Reprogramming boundaries: childhood, triggers, & rewiring
13:46 – How to test boundaries without ruining the relationship
14:43 – The Boundary Audit Tool you can download
15:35 – Final words: Boundaries = Magnetism
16:03 – Quiz & challenge invite
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If you’ve been leaking energy, overexplaining yourself, or letting people cross the line…
This is your sign to lock in your boundaries and take back your frame.
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🎯 Apply for the 7-Day Magnetism Challenge or take the quiz here:
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Big love,
Corey

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Chapters

1. Stop Being Walked Over & Implement These Boundaries #267 (00:00:00)

2. Why People Aren't Listening to You (00:01:42)

3. Three Stages of Boundary Setting (00:03:34)

4. The Boundary Enforcement Model (00:08:54)

5. Boundary Reprogramming Process (00:12:35)

6. Becoming Magnetic Through Boundaries (00:16:08)

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