The Illusion of Control: When Trust Meets Surrender - Deep Trust Series Ep 4
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What if the control you’ve been clinging to… was never real safety at all?
In this deeply personal episode of the Deep Trust mini-series, we explore the illusion of control - why we grip so tightly, how it shows up as perfectionism, overthinking, or people-pleasing, and what it really means to surrender.
Through my own story of leaving my job and stepping into the unknown, I share what it looks like to trust your path even when it doesn’t unfold the way you expected. Because control is fear pretending to protect us - but trust, that’s where freedom and creation live.
You’ll be invited to pause, reflect, and reconnect with your own body’s wisdom as you release the need to know how and learn to trust that you’re already being guided.
🎧 Tune in for gentle guidance, reflection questions, and a “Magic of What If” card pull to help you soften your grip, align your energy, and surrender into your next level of growth.
💜 “Control will keep you small. Trust will set you free.”
Take a deep breath, and after each question, let your body - not your mind -respond.
- Where in my life am I trying to control the outcome?
- What am I afraid might happen if I let go?
- What part of me believes I need to hold it all together to feel safe?
- How am I abandoning myself in the process?
- What might happen if I trusted that I’m already being guided - that everything unfolding right now is part of something bigger?
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Chapters
1. The Illusion of Control: When Trust Meets Surrender - Deep Trust Series Ep 4 (00:00:00)
2. Deep Trust Series Context (00:01:57)
3. Naming The Illusion Of Control (00:02:42)
4. Sneaky Forms Of Control (00:03:08)
5. Fear Disguised As Protection (00:04:13)
6. Believing Before Seeing (00:05:21)
7. Leaving The Job: A Leap Of Faith (00:05:51)
8. Releasing The Grip On Outcomes (00:06:37)
9. From Control To Creation (00:07:38)
10. Surrender And Aligned Action (00:09:57)
11. The Cost Of Holding On (00:10:28)
12. Reflection Questions For Letting Go (00:11:23)
13. Card Pull: Choose Love Over Fear (00:13:31)
14. Nervous System Safety And Trust (00:15:16)
15. Weekly Invitation And Closing (00:16:26)
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