In this episode, I share a story about my daughter comparing her backflip skills to her younger sister’s, leading to frustration and self-doubt. Together, we unpacked how comparison was unfair—her sister trains in gymnastics, giving her an advantage. By shifting from comparison to inspiration, my daughter asked for help, and they worked together to improve. I’ll show how using the SOAR method can guide kids to replace comparison with inspiration, leading to growth and connection.