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65. People Pleasing Is a Trap and ‘Sorry’ Is the Bait; What to Say Instead of Apologizing

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What if saying “sorry” isn’t kindness — but self-doubt in disguise? And what if the key to less doubt and more respect is simply choosing a new way to speak?

In this episode, I'm showing you why "sorry" isn't creating the connection you think it is—and why it's actually making things worse.

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why apologizing when you've done nothing wrong destroys your confidence
  • How saying "sorry" is a trap to avoid feeling guilty
  • Why over-apologizing pushes people away instead of bringing them closer and,
  • Exact phrases to use instead of "sorry"

If you people please, saying "sorry" is like trying to comb your hair with a hammer. It's the wrong tool!

Send us a text

  continue reading

66 episodes

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Manage episode 489051445 series 3438737
Content provided by Heidi Gustafson. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Heidi Gustafson or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

What if saying “sorry” isn’t kindness — but self-doubt in disguise? And what if the key to less doubt and more respect is simply choosing a new way to speak?

In this episode, I'm showing you why "sorry" isn't creating the connection you think it is—and why it's actually making things worse.

Here's what you'll learn:

  • Why apologizing when you've done nothing wrong destroys your confidence
  • How saying "sorry" is a trap to avoid feeling guilty
  • Why over-apologizing pushes people away instead of bringing them closer and,
  • Exact phrases to use instead of "sorry"

If you people please, saying "sorry" is like trying to comb your hair with a hammer. It's the wrong tool!

Send us a text

  continue reading

66 episodes

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