What does belonging look like when your story begins in a refugee camp? In this episode of It’s Both — Navigating Life’s Gray Areas & Messy Moments, therapist and storyteller Nikki P sits with Abdikadir Mohamed to explore duality in identity, safety, and home.

Abdi shares his journey from 14 years in a Kenyan refugee camp to rebuilding life in the U.S.—the fear and excitement of transition, the weight of elder sibling leadership, and the emotional complexity of holding gratitude and grief at the same time. Through authentic conversations and honest storytelling, they unpack culture shock, community support, and what it means to belong while still feeling between worlds—the true messy middle.

You’ll hear:

- How refugee life shaped resilience and responsibility

- Why community and proximity build empathy and healing

- Practices for self-compassion and steadiness in uncertainty

- How to honor grief, gratitude, and hope—together

If you’re navigating cultural identity, family duty, or a big transition, this episode offers language, nuance, and companionship for navigating life’s gray areas—without toxic positivity.

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Thank you again for listening and remember, life isn't either/or, it's both.