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#33 How to Shift Long-Held Patterns (Without Burning Out)
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You've tried everything — the habits, the routines, the resets. But the patterns keep coming back. This episode breaks down why intensity won’t get you there — and how to shift with integration instead.
You've tried all the right things — early wakeups, new planners, strict morning routines — only to find yourself burned out, frustrated, and falling back into old patterns. In this episode, Julie Holly breaks down the root of sustainable change: integration over intensity.
You’ll learn how your nervous system, neuroplasticity, and spiritual grounding all play a role in rewiring your life at the identity level. Plus, the story of Reid Hoffman’s pivot from chaos at PayPal to calibrated consistency at LinkedIn.
We’ll link prior episodes for deeper context in the show notes.
What We Cover in This Episode:
• Why your brain resists rigid habit plans
• How over-optimization sabotages long-term growth
• What Reid Hoffman learned from the early PayPal chaos
• How neuroplasticity works under conditions of safety
• The spiritual foundation for integration (Phil. 1:6, NLT)
• Vagal tone and why your nervous system needs margin
• The difference between short-term sprints and sustainable pace
• How to move beyond intensity and embrace integration
Today’s Micro-Recalibration:
Pick one default response you uncovered in Episode 31 or 32.
Ask:
• Where does this response show up most often?
• What would pausing for 5 seconds look like?
• How can I integrate a new response gently — not perfectly?
You're not behind. You’re becoming.
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This isn’t therapy. This isn’t coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.
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