In this episode of Faith Over Addiction, Tanya Gioia sits down with dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay, one of America's leading mid-life dating coaches, to explore the powerful connection between self-love, emotional maturity, and healthy relationships.

Jonathon opens up about his personal journey, including the tragic loss of his 19-year-old son, Connor, in 2018. This profound grief led him to a soul-searching inner journey, where he discovered the critical role of self-worth in forming healthy relationships. Through therapy, spiritual growth, and self-discovery, Jonathon rebuilt his life—and now he helps others do the same by guiding them toward greater self-love.

In this episode, we dive into:

💡 The importance of emotional maturity in making better relationship choices

💡 Breaking free from toxic codependency and embracing healthy interdependence

💡 Why setting boundaries is a vital act of self-respect in love

💡 How Christian women can maintain faith-driven values in modern relationships

Jonathon also challenges traditional gender roles, sharing how both men and women must evolve beyond outdated relationship scripts. He discusses how leadership in relationships is grounded in emotional intelligence, mutual respect, and shared values. He introduces the concept of the “grower-builder” man—an emotionally, spiritually, and financially independent individual who is intentional in dating and seeks a partner who is equally self-aware.

If you've ever struggled with setting boundaries, breaking free from codependency, or understanding what a healthy relationship truly looks like, this episode is for you.

🎧 Tune in now to discover how self-love is the foundation for lasting, fulfilling relationships!

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Website - https://www.jonathonaslay.com/

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Book - What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway? - https://www.amazon.com/What-Self-Love-Anyway-Jonathon-Aslay-ebook/dp/B07SD7JKPJ

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Are you caught in the chaos of addiction, constantly cleaning up emotional, spiritual, and physical messes that aren't yours? Welcome to Faith Over Addiction, where faith meets real life. Hosted by Family Recovery Coach Tanya Gioia, this podcast is designed to offer Christian women hope, healing, and practical tools to navigate the challenges of loving someone with addiction.

Through biblical truths, heartfelt stories, and actionable guidance, you’ll learn how to set healthy boundaries, find peace in the mess, and reclaim your God-given identity. You don’t have to carry what was never meant to be yours. It’s time to shift from “this is happening to me” to “this is happening for me,” and let God transform the chaos into something that glorifies Him.

Every week, I’m here to encourage you, offer clarity, and remind you that as a daughter of the King, You Always Have Other Options (YAHOO). Together, we’ll embrace faith as the foundation, boundaries as the bridge to healing, and God’s truth as the ultimate guide to freedom, strength, and grace.

Blessings,

Tanya Gioia 🌸

🎵 Music Credit:

Track: Luz Solart

Artist: Luna Cantina

Album: Luz Solart

Released: 2024