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Positive Masculinity: Why Real Men Cry
Manage episode 505012073 series 2149208
Chris shares the raw reality of losing his father suddenly at 72 and how grief reveals the power of positive masculinity. Traditional masculine norms taught men to suppress emotions and avoid vulnerability, but this episode demonstrates a different path by processing pain rather than bottling it up. The discussion covers how an older generation was conditioned to never seek therapy or discuss problems, leading emotions to emerge sideways. The intense three-day Italian Catholic funeral process is described and how forcing through the full mourning ritual actually helped move grief through the system faster. There's discussion of a mysterious final phone call from his father exactly 30 days before his death, when they had no cell service in the mountains where his dad asked them to find a spot for his ashes. The conversation explores how losing a parent forces psychological maturation and how embracing both sadness and positivity creates authentic emotional processing rather than toxic positivity.
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406 episodes
Manage episode 505012073 series 2149208
Chris shares the raw reality of losing his father suddenly at 72 and how grief reveals the power of positive masculinity. Traditional masculine norms taught men to suppress emotions and avoid vulnerability, but this episode demonstrates a different path by processing pain rather than bottling it up. The discussion covers how an older generation was conditioned to never seek therapy or discuss problems, leading emotions to emerge sideways. The intense three-day Italian Catholic funeral process is described and how forcing through the full mourning ritual actually helped move grief through the system faster. There's discussion of a mysterious final phone call from his father exactly 30 days before his death, when they had no cell service in the mountains where his dad asked them to find a spot for his ashes. The conversation explores how losing a parent forces psychological maturation and how embracing both sadness and positivity creates authentic emotional processing rather than toxic positivity.
🚧 THE BOUNDARIES INTENSIVE:
https://EmotionalBadass.com/boundaries
CODE: BADASS for $50 off
💖 PATREON:
https://Patreon.com/emotionalbadass
👨👨 WORK WITH NIKKI 1:1:
https://EmotionalBadass.com/coaching
📰 THE BI-WEEKLY WELLNESS NEWSLETTER
https://www.EmotionalBadass.com/newsletter
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
406 episodes
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