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The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself

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Are you the one who’s always reliable, the steady hub for your family, workplace, and friends? If you find yourself exhausted, disconnected, or feeling invisible, this episode, "The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself," is for you. I dive into how chronic self-neglect isn’t just about a busy schedule, but a deeper, slow-burning risk to your mental health, relationships, and sense of self.

I discuss openly the habit of self-abandonment, shoving your needs, desires, and joy to the bottom of the list. We explore how this pattern leads to anxiety, depression, midlife burnout, strained relationships, and even impacts your physical health.

You’ll hear why it’s so common for women (especially in midlife or those balancing caregiving roles) to feel lost not just in their responsibilities, but in their own identity. Most importantly, I’ll guide you through actionable steps to reclaim your self-worth, create healthy boundaries, and develop life-changing self-care routines. It’s time to rediscover what genuine presence means and why it’s essential for your well-being.

What You’ll Learn:

  1. Why “The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself” are bigger than just being busy or helpful, they’re about micro-moments of self-abandonment.
  2. How ignoring your own needs and feelings leads to classic signs of burnout: anxiety, fatigue, sleep issues, and loss of meaning.
  3. The connection between self-neglect, relationship strain, and a creeping sense of loneliness even surrounded by loved ones.
  4. The physical toll of chronic stress, and why women in midlife (especially during perimenopause or menopause) are especially vulnerable.
  5. Step-by-step strategies to rebuild presence in your life with healthy boundaries, self-discovery, and micro-doses of joy.

Call to Action:
✨ Tune in now for real examples, science-backed advice, and practical tips to help you show up for yourself. If this resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe and let me know in the comments whether you’re feeling burned out or craving true connection.

Stay tuned for another amazing episode crafted especially for you!

📕 Resources:

https://createthebestme.com/ep131

https://createthebestme.com/ep127

Related Episodes:

🎧 Listen to these episodes:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17668267

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17589167

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17441076

#BePresent #PreventBurnout #CreateTheBestMe #BePresentForYourself #MidlifeMotivation #MenopauseSupport #WomensWellness #HealthyAging

📨 Newsletter:

https://createthebestme.com/newsletter/

👀 Connect With Me:

Website: https://createthebestme.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthebestme

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenhecox/

TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@carmenhecox
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@createthebestme

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-hecox

📽️ Video Request:

https://forms.office.com/r/LvLV1AsBfv

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Chapters

1. The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself (00:00:00)

2. The Invisible Crisis of Self-Abandonment (00:01:46)

3. Risk 1: The Agitation: The High Stakes of Self-Neglect (00:03:58)

4. Risk 2: The Relational Fracture (00:06:40)

5. Share Your Thoughts With Me (00:08:36)

6. Risk 3: The Erosion of Your Life's Foundation (00:09:02)

7. The Solution: The Path Back to Presence (00:10:57)

8. Step 1: Cultivating Awareness (The Gentle Check-In) (00:11:53)

9. Step 2: Redrawing the Map (Setting Boundaries) (00:13:03)

10. Step 3: Intentional Re-Engagement (The “Presence” Practice) (00:14:39)

11. Conclusion (00:16:04)

12. Call to Action (00:17:00)

131 episodes

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Are you the one who’s always reliable, the steady hub for your family, workplace, and friends? If you find yourself exhausted, disconnected, or feeling invisible, this episode, "The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself," is for you. I dive into how chronic self-neglect isn’t just about a busy schedule, but a deeper, slow-burning risk to your mental health, relationships, and sense of self.

I discuss openly the habit of self-abandonment, shoving your needs, desires, and joy to the bottom of the list. We explore how this pattern leads to anxiety, depression, midlife burnout, strained relationships, and even impacts your physical health.

You’ll hear why it’s so common for women (especially in midlife or those balancing caregiving roles) to feel lost not just in their responsibilities, but in their own identity. Most importantly, I’ll guide you through actionable steps to reclaim your self-worth, create healthy boundaries, and develop life-changing self-care routines. It’s time to rediscover what genuine presence means and why it’s essential for your well-being.

What You’ll Learn:

  1. Why “The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself” are bigger than just being busy or helpful, they’re about micro-moments of self-abandonment.
  2. How ignoring your own needs and feelings leads to classic signs of burnout: anxiety, fatigue, sleep issues, and loss of meaning.
  3. The connection between self-neglect, relationship strain, and a creeping sense of loneliness even surrounded by loved ones.
  4. The physical toll of chronic stress, and why women in midlife (especially during perimenopause or menopause) are especially vulnerable.
  5. Step-by-step strategies to rebuild presence in your life with healthy boundaries, self-discovery, and micro-doses of joy.

Call to Action:
✨ Tune in now for real examples, science-backed advice, and practical tips to help you show up for yourself. If this resonates with you, don’t forget to subscribe and let me know in the comments whether you’re feeling burned out or craving true connection.

Stay tuned for another amazing episode crafted especially for you!

📕 Resources:

https://createthebestme.com/ep131

https://createthebestme.com/ep127

Related Episodes:

🎧 Listen to these episodes:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17668267

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17589167

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1949561/episodes/17441076

#BePresent #PreventBurnout #CreateTheBestMe #BePresentForYourself #MidlifeMotivation #MenopauseSupport #WomensWellness #HealthyAging

📨 Newsletter:

https://createthebestme.com/newsletter/

👀 Connect With Me:

Website: https://createthebestme.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/createthebestme

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carmenhecox/

TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@carmenhecox
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@createthebestme

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/carmen-hecox

📽️ Video Request:

https://forms.office.com/r/LvLV1AsBfv

  continue reading

Chapters

1. The Risks You Take When You Fail To Be Present For Yourself (00:00:00)

2. The Invisible Crisis of Self-Abandonment (00:01:46)

3. Risk 1: The Agitation: The High Stakes of Self-Neglect (00:03:58)

4. Risk 2: The Relational Fracture (00:06:40)

5. Share Your Thoughts With Me (00:08:36)

6. Risk 3: The Erosion of Your Life's Foundation (00:09:02)

7. The Solution: The Path Back to Presence (00:10:57)

8. Step 1: Cultivating Awareness (The Gentle Check-In) (00:11:53)

9. Step 2: Redrawing the Map (Setting Boundaries) (00:13:03)

10. Step 3: Intentional Re-Engagement (The “Presence” Practice) (00:14:39)

11. Conclusion (00:16:04)

12. Call to Action (00:17:00)

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