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What to Do When the Person Who Ghosted You Returns in Love or Dating

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In this episode, host Gretta, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, reveals exactly what to do when the person who ghosted you reappears and wants to come back to your life. You’ll learn how to protect your heart, set clear boundaries, and decide with confidence whether a reunion is truly right for you. You’ll discover:

  • The types of relationships that aren't safe to go back to
  • How to be a ghostbuster and shut down the haunting
  • How to identify if the person who hurt you has grown and evolved to the point where they are unlikely to vanish again
  • How to know if you feel ready to rekindle a spark with your former partner
  • The first steps to getting back together with a rehabilitated ghost

By the end of this show, you’ll understand what you need and what they must show in order to begin building a healthy relationship.
Note: While this episode focuses on romantic reunions and dating, many of the insights can also be applied to friendships and family relationships.

Connect With Gretta:
👻
Free Guide: What to Say To Your Ghost
Coaching With Gretta
❤️‍🩹Free and Private Facebook Support Group | 🌻 Instagram | YouTubecopingwithghosting.com

Resources Mentioned:

National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233

12 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship - Cleveland Clinic Article

Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Happiness, and Confidence by Dr. Debi Silber

Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo Zaiah

Disclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals.

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Note to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

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Chapters

1. Welcome and Content Warning (00:00:00)

2. What to do when a ghost comes back (00:03:22)

3. Building a New Foundation (00:07:33)

4. Seven Signs of a Changed Ghost (00:11:36)

5. Making Your Decision (00:20:47)

6. Final Thoughts and Resources (00:23:55)

86 episodes

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Manage episode 508922253 series 2878837
Content provided by Gretta Perlmutter, MA, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, Gretta Perlmutter, MA, and Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Gretta Perlmutter, MA, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, Gretta Perlmutter, MA, and Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode, host Gretta, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, reveals exactly what to do when the person who ghosted you reappears and wants to come back to your life. You’ll learn how to protect your heart, set clear boundaries, and decide with confidence whether a reunion is truly right for you. You’ll discover:

  • The types of relationships that aren't safe to go back to
  • How to be a ghostbuster and shut down the haunting
  • How to identify if the person who hurt you has grown and evolved to the point where they are unlikely to vanish again
  • How to know if you feel ready to rekindle a spark with your former partner
  • The first steps to getting back together with a rehabilitated ghost

By the end of this show, you’ll understand what you need and what they must show in order to begin building a healthy relationship.
Note: While this episode focuses on romantic reunions and dating, many of the insights can also be applied to friendships and family relationships.

Connect With Gretta:
👻
Free Guide: What to Say To Your Ghost
Coaching With Gretta
❤️‍🩹Free and Private Facebook Support Group | 🌻 Instagram | YouTubecopingwithghosting.com

Resources Mentioned:

National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233

12 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship - Cleveland Clinic Article

Trust Again: Overcoming Betrayal and Regaining Health, Happiness, and Confidence by Dr. Debi Silber

Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo Zaiah

Disclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals.

Support the show

Note to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Welcome and Content Warning (00:00:00)

2. What to do when a ghost comes back (00:03:22)

3. Building a New Foundation (00:07:33)

4. Seven Signs of a Changed Ghost (00:11:36)

5. Making Your Decision (00:20:47)

6. Final Thoughts and Resources (00:23:55)

86 episodes

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